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Quote from: ChrissyRyan on March 28, 2026, 04:40:13 PMI have been invited as a guest to go to an upcoming pro golf event over multiple days. I am reluctant because there will be many people there and it will all be televised. Is this a time to go as my "old self"? I just would be so nervous and have a lack of confidence with so many people around. Every hole on every day will be video archived.
Edit: I would go as a spectator, to make that clear.
I found out that if I go, that I would have access to some areas the pros might be eating dinner or buying gear (I thought they got most of that from sponsors?) at a pro and gift shop that has a more restricted access. I think it is because tournament sponsors pay hefty fees so they get some passes to some privileged areas. So it would be like a shared set of passes among those that decide to go.
I think that being with so many elite people may go over the top with me and I would be extremely nervous. Yet, I am curious. I am leaning towards not going.
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