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Tomorrow is my 2nd pyschologists visit

Started by Petunia, Today at 01:53:42 AM

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Petunia


It's not really my 2nd visit, more like 10th, but it is the first visit after revealing myself.

So today I did a bit of shopping. 
I'm not supposed to go out crossdessed as per my wife but I have been only wearing womens jeans, leggings, tee shirts, shorts, undies for a while a now. All kind of gender neutral but not if you really look.

As previously mentioned my hair dresser/ beautician advised me about wearing smaller earrings and also lipstick that isn't too dark.

Today I bought some new lipstick and had a lovely encounter when paying for it.

I also bought a new blouse which I hope pairs with either my skinny black or moroon jeans.

Again this was a very positive experience and both assistants had no doubt who I was buying for but they couldn't have been friendlier.

The problem I have is a super skinny bottom half and a much larger top bit. But hopefully the blouse is flowy enough.

I intend to wear ballet flats on my feet for an unmistakable appearance.

I'm currently re-glossing my fingers and touching up my red toenails.

I just need to have the courage to go through with it

KathyLauren

It sounds like you have your presentation worked out.  It sounds nicely androgynous.  I am glad you are having positive shopping experiences and are getting advice from those in the know.  I am guessing that you will make a good impression on the psychologist.  Good luck!
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Dear Petunia


From what you described it sounds like that you have your self-assuance and confidence
geared up for success.

Along with your other readers and avid followers I will be eagerly looking for your
updates.  As always, I am wishing your success and happiness.

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Petunia

Danielle, thank you for the vote of confidence. I'm not so sure that I'm ready but putting it in writing kind of pushes me that little bit further.

KathyLauren, I'm realky hoping I have the courage to follow through.  Thanks for your support

Pema

Good luck, Petunia! Really, you don't even need luck; just be yourself. After all, that's what you're there for - to show your therapist as genuinely as you can who you are, how you feel, what you want, etc. Whatever you feel ready to present is where you are at that moment, and that's what they need to see to provide you with the guidance you're there to receive. It's all good. Please let us know how it goes.
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