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tammy753

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Today at 05:14:51 PM
Can someone point me to "Late-Onset Transsexual talk" I can't find it?
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Stottie Girl

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Today at 05:22:09 PM
I have no partner or children either. I suppose it should make it easier but it certainly doesn't feel easier! I am probably worrying about nothing as I hardly ever see anyone from the team in person and I won't be the only trans person in the council but the other girl is so stealth I didn't know she was trans! I would love to have the same outcome.

If you aren't intending to stay you could just come out there as a test run maybe? Or are you woried it might affect your references?
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KristaFairchild

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Today at 05:45:24 PM
Welcome back, Tammy! 

tammy753

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Today at 05:51:19 PM
I honestly don't know how it works with references. If you leave and want to start work as your true self how does that work?
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Stottie Girl

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Today at 06:14:24 PM
Quote from: tammy753 on Today at 05:51:19 PMI honestly don't know how it works with references. If you leave and want to start work as your true self how does that work?
I genuinely don't know but it's a bloody good question. Maybe someone can chime in with the answer?
A wise man once said don't judge a man until you've walked a mile in his shoes, that way when you judge him you're a mile away and you have his shoes!

Never trust a man who, when left alone in a room with a tea cozy, doesn't try it on - Billy Connolley
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tgirlamg

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Today at 06:16:07 PM
Quote from: tammy753 on Today at 05:14:51 PMCan someone point me to "Late-Onset Transsexual talk" I can't find it?

Hey Tammy!

I don't think we have a dedicated area for late onset but if you post a new thread with late onset in the title under the transgender talk or transexual MTF section... you should get lots of responses!

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Ashley 💕
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"The individual has always had to struggle from being overwhelmed by the tribe... But, no price is too high for the privilege of owning yourself" ... Rudyard Kipling 🌸

Let go of the things that no longer serve you... Let go of the pretense of the false persona, it is not you... Let go of the armor that you have worn for a lifetime, to serve the expectations of others and, to protect the woman inside... She needs protection no longer.... She is tired of hiding and more courageous than you know... Let her prove that to you....Let her step out of the dark and feel the light upon her face.... amg🌸

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ChrissyRyan

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Today at 06:27:20 PM
Quote from: tammy753 on Today at 05:14:51 PMCan someone point me to "Late-Onset Transsexual talk" I can't find it?


https://www.susans.org/index.php?topic=57203.0
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ChrissyRyan

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Today at 06:32:41 PM
Quote from: tammy753 on Today at 05:51:19 PMI honestly don't know how it works with references. If you leave and want to start work as your true self how does that work?


I have always used my name on the legal documents for applications, references, etc.
If it changes, then you use your then current legal name.  The deadname would likely linger though.  Others here can go further with their experiences to help you.

Changing your name on legal documents can be handled via many transgender support group associated lawyers for maybe a $500 fee or you can do it yourself.

Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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