Bra Sizing

[Devlyn ✅]

You know, when someone comes to the site and says...

"Which surgeon will give me the best, most natural looking, 102% passable (with a 2% margin of error) vagina?"

...we send them to the Great Wall of Vagina (seriously, look it up) and we ask them which was the perfect one?

I would say that the same will apply to breasts. In fact I looked before I made this post. Not all breasts are big, they're not all round, and most are a bit unequal. 🙂

[Devlyn ✅]

Do you not mean too much tatas?🤣

DING DING DING!

Somebody just won the internet!

[Stottie Girl]

You know, when someone comes to the site and says...

"Which surgeon will give me the best, most natural looking, 102% passable (with a 2% margin of error) vagina?"

...we send them to the Great Wall of Vagina (seriously, look it up) and we ask them which was the perfect one?

I would say that the same will apply to breasts. In fact I looked before I made this post. Not all breasts are big, they're not all round, and most are a bit unequal. 🙂

So true, mine are a bit pendulous, I wish they were perkier. My right one is probably close to a half size bigger than the left too. But they are still growing so I hope things will even out as they finally mature. If not well, it's not the end of the world.

Point is no two boobs will be the same. If you want perfection there is no such thing, it depends on the your own perception. You always have options if you do not like where the ride stops.

[Maid Marion]

I doubt whether HRT or breast augmentation would make my boobs any more passable.
They are totally within the expected size range in a women with my current BMI.
The left one is slightly larger than the one on the right.  32A is the current bra size.

[Courtney G]

Boob greed is a real thing. I never thought I'd get past an A cup or a small B. I'm a 36D now and I'm thinking "double D would be nice."

Oh, and I'm wearing a new bra I bought for sleeping in warm weather. Cotton pullover. Comfy. A 4 pack was cheap. And I just LOVE every new bra. I want a whole room full of them, in every color and style.

[Stottie Girl]

Boob greed is a real thing. I never thought I'd get past an A cup or a small B. I'm a 36D now and I'm thinking "double D would be nice."

Oh, and I'm wearing a new bra I bought for sleeping in warm weather. Cotton pullover. Comfy. A 4 pack was cheap. And I just LOVE every new bra. I want a whole room full of them, in every color and style.

This is a perfect example of what I was talking about. You appear to have a slim athletic body and 36 D boobs on that is slightly above average, you still have all your clothing options, you aren't going to get a sore back, they are probably perkier than mine, you can buy bras from the high street not specialist online shops. To me, yours are perfect but to you no, you want more.

I am a little concered about mine as I have been reading about sister sizing and the fact that for each band size you drop you need to size up a cup. I will loose fat in them but because of hormones I will likely loose weight around them faster which means even though the boobs loose volume they are proportionately bigger. Back when I was 13 stone I was a 36 band projecting that forward would mean I am possibly going to land in the vicinity of 36H (UK). I fear that is too much boobage! I have narrow shoulders and my boobs are only 1" apart at the root so they are going to be very prominant. I'm worried that is going to present problems with people staring at them in public. I think I would be very happy with a D cup personally.

[Charlotte Kitty ✅]

Wow 36H sounds perfect to me!! If I had that I would be rapidly joining a certain place where you make money from fans.

[Stottie Girl]

Wow 36H sounds perfect to me!! If I had that I would be rapidly joining a certain place where you make money from fans.

Hmmmm I'm too shy for anything like that Charlotte! You're a wild one at heart aren't you!

All of what I've been saying is just boob theory, only time will tell I guess. The bra that I just bought that feels sooo comfy  (the 46 E) is too loose in the band at the back, I can get my fist behind the band on the tightest hooks. But the 44E band was too tight. According to the sister size theory, this is because the cup size at 44E is too small and the boobs are pushing the band out too tightly and pulling the band too tight. This could be right as I flipped the 44E bra upside down with the cups pointing downwards and lo and behold the 44 strap was no longer too tight.

The caveat here is that the bras I have been testing are the Curvy Kate Spacer Plunge Bras. They have 3D spacer material instead of rigid fabric for the cups (think shapewear for your boobs) these mould to your boob and may not give the true representation of boob size. Soooo. I've ordered an unpadded balcony bra in 44F to test the theory. Balcony bras have rigid fabric across the bottom half of the cups so they will not distort under boob pressure. Thus, if the bra cups fit and the band size feels right then I am a true 44F.

Are you sure you want big boobs ha ha!!!!! What a rigmarole! it's like a science project!

[Courtney G]

This is a perfect example of what I was talking about. You appear to have a slim athletic body and 36 D boobs on that is slightly above average, you still have all your clothing options, you aren't going to get a sore back, they are probably perkier than mine, you can buy bras from the high street not specialist online shops. To me, yours are perfect but to you no, you want more.

Don't get me wrong, I love mine and I'm very satisfied. I've gotten more than I dreamed possible. I often feel guilty about it and I sometimes hesitate to mention or display them in trans spaces because I've spent a lifetime feeling inadequate and I certainly don't want to make others feel that way. Yes, on my slim frame, they're really something. But I would love for them to be more of a focal point of my appearance, a little more "wow, those are really exceptional" in the cis world, rather than just the trans one. In the cis world, they're "nice", which is great, but I find myself hoping I get a little more. Part of this is that I'm on the tall side at 5' 10 1/2". Perhaps I want to be sure to prevent men from looking too closely at the rest of me.

Wow 36H sounds perfect to me!! If I had that I would be rapidly joining a certain place where you make money from fans.

In my case, I've considered this as a "plan B" more than once. I figured that if I got divorced and started to have financial problems, I could wear a mask or just be visible from the neck down. Before coming out to myself, I did what many did: look at that sort of stuff and wish I could be like them. So I know that I'm exceptional and that I could make a lot of money. Life is strange sometimes.

[Charlotte Kitty ✅]

In my case, I've considered this as a "plan B" more than once. I figured that if I got divorced and started to have financial problems, I could wear a mask or just be visible from the neck down. Before coming out to myself, I did what many did: look at that sort of stuff and wish I could be like them. So I know that I'm exceptional and that I could make a lot of money. Life is strange sometimes.

Definitely don't wear a mask as then would be missing the best part!!

[Stottie Girl]

I get where you are coming from Courtney and I do not wish to make anyone feel inadequate either but those of us who have had good growth need to be able to discuss these things, they don't come with a manual and as you can see with all my deliberations and experimenting, it's bloody complicated. I do not have anyone to talk to about this stuff, Are you having lengthy discussions with your wife about boob growth and bra sizing? If you are then great but I do not think we should be forced to be quiet and not try to find answers.

For balance I am very keen to highlight the negatives as much as the positives. Of course I love that they have grown so much but it does have it's bad points too.

Regarding the likes of Onlyfans, it does not matter how big my boobs are, when I loose the weight I'm not going to have a super tight holywood starlet figure in the buff! There will be excess skin, and if I get rid of that there will be tummy tuck scars. Nobody is going to pay good money to see that ha ha! If you two think you can rock that lifestyle then have at it but I can't see me raking in the funds at 50 years old!

[Courtney G]

I do not have anyone to talk to about this stuff, Are you having lengthy discussions with your wife about boob growth and bra sizing? If you are then great but I do not think we should be forced to be quiet and not try to find answers.

I'm a bit similar, but I have a couple of close female friends who are able to help a bit, as well as the older of my sisters. Discussing breasts and clothing with my sister is something I'd never imagined would happen, but she's a good person who loves me.

My wife offers me acceptance with a limited amount of encouragement. She encourages me to walk around/go out as myself. To quote her "What's the worst that can happen? The world isn't going to come to an end." But I don't know that she'd want to go out to a restaurant with me in full-on Courtney mode. Perhaps she would.

She did give me a bunch of her old bras, including some frilly ones and a lacy pink camisole that is clearly lingerie rather than practical boob-supporting in its function. But she's never bought me any girl clothes.

She has commented on my breasts a bit, joking that they're "terrifying" and "so big" but she hasn't said they're "nice" or anything like that. It's like she doesn't want to encourage me, which is understandable. So when I have questions, I generally don't ask her. I've mentioned my development and timeline and the possibility that I can grow more over the coming years and she acts a bit like it's impossible. I tell her I'm really only about 17 years old in puberty years and she laughs as if to dismiss the thought. She's quite smart but I think there's a bit of cognitive dissonance there. Again, understandable.

[Stottie Girl]

Wow! You're very lucky Courtney, you have such a great support network there. I have no sisters, I'm not talking about this stuff with my mum either! I do have one female friend but I don't see her often and she does not know, well at least I have not told her, she might know in truth, the funbags are getting hard to hide! I'm going to have to tell her soon I think.

You're wife seems like a bit of an enigma on the one hand you say she is unhappy about the fact you are transitioning (albeit partially) but on the other she's assisting you with free lingerie! They are nice Courtney and she knows it! Any women knows it.