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Victoria, A Journey to Thailand and GRS!!!

Started by VictoriasSecret, July 17, 2026, 08:17:29 PM

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VictoriasSecret

@Stottie Girl. Thank you for your well wishes. Having @Sarah B along for the ride is making things easier.
Alot of us go that journey alone and I planned to do so but everyone around me said I needed someone with me and not to go alone.
Don't give up hope as I'm sure when the time comes you will have someone to tag along and be with you.
I will be documenting as much as I can along the way so that it helps keep everyone informed as to what, how and why it happened. It should be invaluable information for those seeking to take the surgery path.


@Lori Dee thank you for your well wishes.
There will be lots to tell as it happens. I'm sure the first couple of days post surgery will be a bit blurry but I will definitely document when the fog lifts!!!
@Sarah B is taking this trip in her stride and not as excited as I am. I have to keep her happy with snacks on the plane and other bits and bobs as the trip plays out!!! lol
May the Goddess light your way with calm and clarity.
Blessed Be
Victoria

ChrissyRyan

I hope all goes well for you Victoria.


Hugs,

Chrissy
Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 

VictoriasSecret

May the Goddess light your way with calm and clarity.
Blessed Be
Victoria

ChrissyRyan

If you do a Web search on

TUBI Bangkok Airport

You can watch free a documentary that not only talks and shows about the airport but things to do in Bangkok.
Episode 1. Airport of smiles

There is a second episode for the Bangkok airport in the same airport series, I have not got to see it yet.

Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 

davina61

I wont say good luck as the universe will look after you so I say I hope it all turns out fine.
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Charlotte Kitty

Good luck and hope it all goes well! Sounds like you have a few bits planned too!

Charlotte ❤️

Finally Anna

I can't even imagine the feeling, the excitement.
Safe travels! 💕
All the world's a stage, and all the men and women merely players.
To thine own self be true.

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KristaFairchild

Thank you very much for sharing your journey with us! ❤️

Petunia

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Hi Victoria

I thought I had better write this a bit early in case I forget.

I wish you all the best for next week.

I can't imagine how you are feeling but it must be fantastic to have Sarah by your side.

I hope the trip is not stressful and you get a bit of sightseeing and shopping in.

💗 P
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10 years have got behind you,
no one told you when to run,
you missed the starting gun

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Bon Voyage, safe travels, and quick healing.
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ChrissyRyan

Have safe travels and I wish you the best of results.


Chrissy
Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 

VictoriasSecret

Yesterday was my last day of work prior to surgery.

This time tomorrow I will be boarding the plane from Tassie to Melbourne to meet up with @Sarah B who will be making the journey down from the north of the continent.

Today I did the last of my washing and laid everything out to pack. The decisions on what to pack, how much to pack and not taking enough or overdoing it, is a challenge. Trying to leave space to brings some goodies home is another problem, a good one but still a problem.

As I sit at my PC contemplating all the things that need to be done and ensure that I don' forget anything, I need to remember to breathe and take it one step at a time.

This trip atm moment seems surreal. The enormity of what is to come hasn't hit me yet, not that I have any doubts or concerns but, just taking it all in and mentally preparing myself is such a big thing. Anyone can say, don't worry, you will be fine. Don't stress or panic. All those feelings and emotions are what makes us human and we are entitled to have them. I will do my very best to take in the sights and sounds of Bangkok and take lots of photos to keep busy until Thursday next week.


More to come soon.😁
May the Goddess light your way with calm and clarity.
Blessed Be
Victoria

Finally Anna

Sending my support and repeating my words from before: Determination and fulfilment. I am totally convinced that you've got this. Enjoy Bangkok!
💕

All the world's a stage, and all the men and women merely players.
To thine own self be true.

Out to self since March 5, 2026. My wife knows it all since June 23.
Integration ongoing. I'll cross the transition bridge when I get to it.

Sarah B

Hi Victoria

I will be boarding a plane from Brizzy to Melbourne tomorrow on Friday at 11:50 to catch up with Victoria that night.

I'm not worried about this trip or excited, the only thing that would get me excited is if I get to go to another galaxy.

Yes, I tell her she will be fine and not to stress, panic or worry and I have given her some motherly sisterly advice on what she can expect to happen in depth and in detail.

I'm going to give her some real stick when I catch up with her tomorrow (just joking).  However I admire the research and planning she has done and of course I praise and bow down to her superior knowledge on all her travels plans that she has made for both of us.

See you soon sis.  A lifetime of memories await us.

Best Wishes Always
Sarah B
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VictoriasSecret

Well Sarah and I left on Saturday morning at 10am by shuttle bus, a complimentary service from the motel to Melbourne airport. It was a pretty straight forward journey taking roughly 10 minutes.

We then headed towards the international terminal to check our luggage in which again was was pretty easy. The attendant was incredibly helpful with us checking in and tagging our bags.

Then off to the security screening and customs with no issues. Sarah had a little hiccup with the chip in her passport being read so they took her to a counter to have it read again which was fine. Phew!!!

The international concourse heading towards the boarding lounges was a long walk. We took our time getting to our gate and being early, we just sat and relaxed and watched the 100s of people fill up the two boarding lounges. The terminal next to us was bound for Singapore and ours to Bangkok.

It's interesting to see the way people move and interact with each other. The majority of people had their faces in their phones and were not communicating whereas the older passengers were chatting and watching what was going on around them. The age of technology has definitely changed people, I dare say, for the worst.

Finally we boarded the plane, being part of the last few passengers. Again people all flock and rush to be the first ones to get to the gate and be on the plane. The same can be said for the way people rush to get up out of there seats to get off the plane when the doors haven't even opened yet. Where do they think they're going? We just decided to take our time and get comfortable. The plane wasn't taking off without us.

In spite of the fact that the flight was 8 plus hours, we survived it fairly well. I had to get up a couple of times to use the bathrooms and stretch my legs. I was wearing compression socks to prevent DVT and blood clots forming. They were very firm and by the time we were about 20 minutes from landing, I had to get them off. They are definitely worth the investment though.

After we landed in Bangkok, we had no idea just how big the airport was. It felt like we walked for miles from the plane to customs. Thank god for the travelators along the way to save our legs.
Just before we arrived at customs, we could see the mass of people waiting to get their passports checked and stamped before collecting their luggage. That process took us about an hour before we finally reached the counter to have our passport checked, stamped, our photos taken and our fingerprints scanned. Was it customs or a detention centre?? lol


Then we had the joy of trying to find our luggage. The screens listed the flights that had landed and the belt number where our bags can be found. After a couple of searches on the screen, we found our luggage would be on belt 10. Simple? Not really because when we arrived at belt 10, there was no luggage and the carousel was not moving!!! My first instinct was to question what happened to our bags and how did we get it wrong. Little did I realise that once I walked around to the other side of the belt, there was our luggage sitting in the middle of the concourse and thankfully, still in one piece!!!

After breathing a sigh of relief, we had to make our way to gate 4 to meet the driver from the PAI. After some more walking, we found the driver with a sign with my name on it in bold. Saman was very friendly and accommodating and took us to his car. More walking and escalators and then as we walked out into the carpark, BAM!!! the heat hit us!!! It was something like 29 degrees celsius and this was 9.30pm!!!

It was great to get into the car and to be chaffered to our hotel which took approximately 30 or so minutes.

By this time, we were absolutely exhausted. When trying to check in an pay for the room, my brain went to mush and could not think straight. If it hadn't of been for Sarah to be an extra set of ears, I probably would have crumbled.

Finally after paying for the room, the lovely young porter put our bags onto a trolley and escorted us up to our room. He was also incredibly helpful and accommodating. Our suite is a twin room with everything we could need and is incredibly spacious.

After all that was said and done, we both showered and changed for bed. It was a very long travel day but considering it being the first time we both have stepped into a foreign country, it went surprisingly smooth!!

More to come.... xx
May the Goddess light your way with calm and clarity.
Blessed Be
Victoria

ChrissyRyan

Victoria,

Do consider wheelchair service on your visits to each airport after your surgery.  You will not need to walk as far and you will go through customs and to baggage pickup quicker.  The wheelchair and porter should be meeting you at the arrival gate.  You both do not need to get this service and both of you can be whisked together through your stops as you use it.  This should be a time saver and easier on your body.

Yes, if either of you need to use the bathroom, the porter will wait for either of you to use it.  A small gratuity should be provided each time with this service, say $5 US or $5 Euros.  You can even ask for this when you book your tickets or check in your baggage, or ask for it online or even as late as at the gate.  No charge to book the service.

Each airport is different, and the porter will use the best route to get you at all the stops that need to be made for you.  Airports can be confusing.

Obviously this service is not like an indoor taxi, people can abuse it.  It is for people that have a true need for physical help to get around. 

Some people not needing this wheelchair service use the service to board or exit the aircraft earlier than others, it is both sad and amusing to see 40 wheelchairs emptied at the gate and all but a few really apparently needing them. One truly never knows though as some disabilities are not obvious but those with them need physical help.   The Internet has many videos that show such scenes.  Disgraceful when there are abusers but some people try to beat the system.  One wonders if such antics delays wheelchair service for those that truly need it.

I wish you the best!


Chrissy


Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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Lori Dee

Good luck, Victoria!

Thoughts and prayers are with you, Sarah, and your medical team.
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Finally Anna

I'm excited for you. Envious about you. Curious about your experience. Hopeful about results.
But most of all impressed by the determination about fulfilment.
Awesome!
And to have a sister like Sarah, priceless!

💕
All the world's a stage, and all the men and women merely players.
To thine own self be true.

Out to self since March 5, 2026. My wife knows it all since June 23.
Integration ongoing. I'll cross the transition bridge when I get to it.