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Robyn Zola

Hello everyone,

My name is Robyn and my egg cracked over the summer - shortly after my 60th birthday in May. I found this site just through internet searches and thought I would sign up. Although I've been here since 2004, I was born, raised, and served in the US.

I am pre-HRT. My blood work has already been done and I have an appointment this week with a therapist for my "indication letter" that my GP needs to prescribe speech therapy and hormones (after my endocrinologist consult in September).

I've come out to family, selected friends, and night before last to neighbors. I've been lucky that everyone is extremely supportive. All except my 13-year-old daughter, but given our very close papa-daughter relationship, I think that she needs time. In any case, that is where I am at - the start of the journey.

Thank you for having a community to join.

love,

Robyn

ChrissyRyan

Welcome Robyn!


Chrissy
Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 
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Maid Marion

Hi Robyn,

Welcome!  Transition often involves a lot of waiting.
While waiting it can be helpful to learn how to present appropriately as female. she/her pronouns selected.  If you haven't already I would learn about your skin tone/undertone. So much is based on what that is.

Marion
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Finally Anna

All the world's a stage, and all the men and women merely players.
To thine own self be true.

Out to self since March 5, 2026. My wife knows it all since June 23.
Integration ongoing. I'll cross the transition bridge when I get to it.
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Lori Dee

Hello Robyn,

I'm Lori Dee. Welcome to Susan's Place!

Thank you for that wonderful introduction.

Many of us started later in life. It just seems that this is when we have time to think, are financially better able to do things, and are mature enough to make better decisions. Often, that means we have also established family, work, and other social relationships that can be difficult to manage with those decisions.

Feel free to browse the forums. You will find many stories about how others like us have handled tough decisions, celebrated milestones, or just got on with our lives. Feel free to comment and share your experiences too. We all learn from each other.

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Pema

Hi, Robyn. Welcome and congratulations. I'm sorry about the difficulty with your daughter, but 13 is a challenging age for anyone. I suspect she'll gt there in time. It should be very helpful to both you and her that you've got so much support.

It's great to have you here. I look forward to hearing about how things proceed for you.
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Rochelle

Hello and welcome to Susan's Place. We're happy to have you join us here. 💚
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Egg cracked 12-12-2023
Started HRT 11-12-2025


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tgirlamg

Welcome Aboard Robyn!

I hear in your words the resolve and determination needed to build a life that finally serves you far better and is a reflection of the soul within! I am glad you found your way here!

Onward Brave Sister!

Ashley 💕
"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment" ... Ralph Waldo Emerson 🌸

"The individual has always had to struggle from being overwhelmed by the tribe... But, no price is too high for the privilege of owning yourself" ... Rudyard Kipling 🌸

Let go of the things that no longer serve you... Let go of the pretense of the false persona, it is not you... Let go of the armor that you have worn for a lifetime, to serve the expectations of others and, to protect the woman inside... She needs protection no longer.... She is tired of hiding and more courageous than you know... Let her prove that to you....Let her step out of the dark and feel the light upon her face.... amg🌸

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Alana Ashleigh

Hi Robyn!

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Stottie Girl

Hi Robyn! Nice to meet you.

Welcome to Susans, I'm Sarah from the UK.
A wise man once said don't judge a man until you've walked a mile in his shoes, that way when you judge him you're a mile away and you have his shoes!

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Briana22322

Welcome Robyn! I'm Briana, There is a wealth of information here, and so many wonderful people who are willing to help if needed.
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