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Started by swizzle, October 13, 2026, 05:14:43 PM

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swizzle

There have been so many dumb interactions I've had with cis people, so I've made a small list here.

Context: I am MtF

"You do know what periods are, right?"
"Are femboys like 50% transgender?"
"You're kind of like a futa in real life."

If you have any stories like these of your own, put them in the replies if you want, I'd like to read them.

Stottie Girl

I am not out yet Swizzle so have all these joyous moments ahead of me ha ha!

I'm not sure I should ask this, but what is a futa? Keep it clean mind, moderators are watching🤣🤣
A wise man once said don't judge a man until you've walked a mile in his shoes, that way when you judge him you're a mile away and you have his shoes!

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Maid Marion

I wear skirts and colorful tops on the golf course.
I'm 5ft 2in with an hourglass figure.

Really? you look pretty!


Sarah B βœ…

Hi Everyone

My context is simply "Female", my answers are:

  • "Yes."
  • "I don't know." (I personally don't label people, or I just accept people as they are and move on.)
  • "Whats Futa?" (I looked it up 😁 so no).

And that's why I remain silent about what I did: I don't want to invite those sorts of degrading questions, comments or bigotry in my life.

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big kim

I am under no obligation to explain myself or give you any information. Go suck a bag of d***s is my usual reply

Charlotte Kitty βœ…

Cant say I've had any awkward interactions like this. But then I avoid stupid people!
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Stottie Girl

Quote from: big kim on October 14, 2026, 12:10:45 AMI am under no obligation to explain myself or give you any information. Go suck a bag of d***s is my usual reply
Subtle, I like it!
A wise man once said don't judge a man until you've walked a mile in his shoes, that way when you judge him you're a mile away and you have his shoes!

Never trust a man who, when left alone in a room with a tea cozy, doesn't try it on - Billy Connolley

Finally Anna

Quote from: Sarah B on October 13, 2026, 08:13:34 PMAnd that's why I remain silent about what I did: I don't want to invite those sorts of degrading questions, comments or bigotry in my life.
This speaks volumes to me and it is also how people normally behave.
How many persons tell deep and serious parts of their life's story to someone other than their really, really good friends?
Don't stop thinking about tomorrow.
Don't stop, it'll soon be here.
It'll be better than before.
Yesterday's gone, yesterday's gone


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Stottie Girl

Quote from: Finally Anna on October 14, 2026, 01:36:52 AMThis speaks volumes to me and it is also how people normally behave.
How many persons tell deep and serious parts of their life's story to someone other than their really, really good friends?
Agree 100%. I will not be broadcasting my status once I'm out. It is in fact incredibly important to me. I will tell close friends, family and prospective partners but that is it (oh and anyone who happens to read Susans web pages of course lol!)
A wise man once said don't judge a man until you've walked a mile in his shoes, that way when you judge him you're a mile away and you have his shoes!

Never trust a man who, when left alone in a room with a tea cozy, doesn't try it on - Billy Connolley

Lilis

Quote from: swizzle on October 13, 2026, 05:14:43 PMThere have been so many dumb interactions I've had with cis people, so I've made a small list here.

Context: I am MtF

"You do know what periods are, right?"
"Are femboys like 50% transgender?"
"You're kind of like a futa in real life."

If you have any stories like these of your own, put them in the replies if you want, I'd like to read them.

idk many cis and straight people say many mean stuff, but I'll be cautious acknowledging, entertaining, or internalizing their transphobia 💕

~ Lilis 🌷
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swizzle

Quote from: Stottie Girl on October 13, 2026, 05:53:49 PMI am not out yet Swizzle so have all these joyous moments ahead of me ha ha!

I'm not sure I should ask this, but what is a futa? Keep it clean mind, moderators are watching🤣🤣

It's a kind of Japanese NSFW content. Definitely NOT a respectful or accurate depiction of transgender people.

Stottie Girl

Quote from: swizzle on <strong>Today</strong> at 02:28:14 PMIt's a kind of Japanese NSFW content. Definitely NOT a respectful or accurate depiction of transgender people.
Ha! Well they would have wasted their insult on me lol!!

Thanks for the translation!
A wise man once said don't judge a man until you've walked a mile in his shoes, that way when you judge him you're a mile away and you have his shoes!

Never trust a man who, when left alone in a room with a tea cozy, doesn't try it on - Billy Connolley
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Charlotte Kitty βœ…

Well that word has definitely been used between certain people and myself, albeit in very adult chats. Guess I inhabit the trans underworld with all the degenerates 😆
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Stottie Girl

Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on <strong>Today</strong> at 04:03:33 PMWell that word has definitely been used between certain people and myself, albeit in very adult chats. Guess I inhabit the trans underworld with all the degenerates 😆
Clearly I'm just sweet and innocent lol!😇
A wise man once said don't judge a man until you've walked a mile in his shoes, that way when you judge him you're a mile away and you have his shoes!

Never trust a man who, when left alone in a room with a tea cozy, doesn't try it on - Billy Connolley
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Charlotte Kitty βœ…

Quote from: Stottie Girl on <strong>Today</strong> at 04:05:05 PMClearly I'm just sweet and innocent lol!😇

You're definately innocent! Haha was in RP with a trans grrrl in Belgium! Your eyes would water if you knew what goes down lol
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Stottie Girl

Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on <strong>Today</strong> at 04:23:30 PMYou're definately innocent! Haha was in RP with a trans grrrl in Belgium! Your eyes would water if you knew what goes down lol
OK I don't even know what RP is !!! Damnmit, I used to be cool.....ish
A wise man once said don't judge a man until you've walked a mile in his shoes, that way when you judge him you're a mile away and you have his shoes!

Never trust a man who, when left alone in a room with a tea cozy, doesn't try it on - Billy Connolley
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