Being cisgendered, but a feminist, I come at this topic from a different angle, but similar. For myself, and other feminists I've talked to, there is a definite "apple biting" element to studying life and society from a feminist perspective. All of the sudden you cannot help but to see the gender issues, the sexism, the misogyny underlying so much of life... At times I have wished I could just "turn it off" again, to enjoy this movie, or this book, or just so I wasn't so painfully aware of whatever thing had come up at the time.
But would I go back?
I've asked myself that quite a few times. And for me, the answer is always a resounding HELL NO. It is worth it for me.
Of course, it is easier to hide my feminism from the masses than it is for many trans people to, and I haven't heard of a feminist being killed for her hairy legs or big mouth (personal examples of my feminist outward expression lol), so the two examples don't run totally parallel...but, yah. That's mine.
Great topic, btw.