Being Oggled!

[Charlotte_Ringwood]

In the summer I'm definitely going to show my bra straps and a LOT more skin. I've spent a lifetime hiding this stuff, so I'm gonna take advantage. For someone that gets zero positive attention and feels invisible, I'd prefer anything to make me feel good over none!

I've definitely seen people showing bra straps and I love the  boost femininity it gives.

Charlotte 😻

[Maid Marion]

I have some bras with straps that are meant to be seen.

Marion

[ChrissyRyan]

Showing the lace of a camisole in public is also what I sometimes see. Camisole as a layer if you will, with the lace visible at the bottom under a top.

I do not think I have done that but that is each woman's decision to show her underwear!

In fact some women appear to wear bras and corset like fashions as outer clothing.

But then again, that is their choice to do so, I would not.  Some clothing choices though are simply inappropriate for many situations.  In private, well that gives more flexibility.

[Courtney G]

I have had zero positive self-image/zero confidence in my looks for as long as I can remember. At this point, I'm still not at all happy with my face but I have two remarkable assets that could get me a lot of oggling. I went out to a bar with a friend last week and I was careful to "swoop and scoop" my breasts into a more flattering position, and I pulled the neckline down on my top to show a little cleavage. If I'm honest, I wanted to be oggled; I wanted that validation.

I also wanted to create that distraction, as it could help me to feel less self-conscious about my non-passing face. I don't have a super-masculine face, but I feel it to be unmistakably male.

So yeah, a little oggling is fine by me. If I go out my often during myself in the warm months, I'll be wearing flattering tops, for sure. That will leave no doubt as to the gender I'm trying to project.