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Started by cyanide, January 21, 2009, 07:07:06 PM

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Anne_lifetrip

So, I see that i am also evolving on this femeinine side...good.

Quote from: noleen111 on March 05, 2026, 08:18:25 AMbut full time you need to dress everyday and you need everyday wear .. woman dont dress up everyday.. i found i needed more everyday.. like leggings, shorts/t-shorts.. shoes that were not heels.. and I needed more underwear.

This is soo true. As I started dressing on a day to day basis, I realized that my outfits were for some kind of purpose, but needed every day clothes. Jeans, bootcut with some embroidery and t shirt or bodysuit (I am not sure it is called that way) goes a long way and I feel very comfortable.

I see some outfits on some women and am really tempted to ask them where they have bought them, because, at least for me, purchasing and finding clothes is a bit complicated. I know what I want but I don't get to find it...guess time will help.

Thank you all very much for sharing clothing tips.

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ChrissyRyan

Our clothing has so much variety.  I really enjoy wearing them.  At the office they certainly rise up the formality scale.  Away from that, there is so much you can wear as a woman.

Enjoy accumulating your wardrobe!


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Quote from: Anne_lifetrip on Today at 05:26:53 AMSo, I see that i am also evolving on this femeinine side...good.

This is soo true. As I started dressing on a day to day basis, I realized that my outfits were for some kind of purpose, but needed every day clothes. Jeans, bootcut with some embroidery and t shirt or bodysuit (I am not sure it is called that way) goes a long way and I feel very comfortable.

I see some outfits on some women and am really tempted to ask them where they have bought them, because, at least for me, purchasing and finding clothes is a bit complicated. I know what I want but I don't get to find it...guess time will help.

Thank you all very much for sharing clothing tips.

Love u all 💜
I bet if you stopped them and told them you loved their outfit they would be happy to tell you where they got it from Anne. It's very nice to have strangers compliment you as long as it isn't done in a creepy way of course!

I find shopping online is far easier to find what you want rather than in store personally.

You can also use AI image creators to play with different styles and then use those images to help you find clothes that are similar. Works for me.
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Charlotte Kitty

I love all the variety of clothing I can now access. But need to find a way to control it better as too easy to get soo much stuff and still have gaps. Thinking of just working out a list of styles, occasions and seasons. Then having maximum two outfits for each. Also trying to work out which things I can pair. Its hard as my love of fashion crosses so many genres. On one hand I want really nicely coordinated outfits and dresses for work, good but normal looking outfits for going out and everyday normal outfits. Then more out there Kawaii / bright / cute outfits for both going out and everyday. Then multiply these across 2-3 seasons with layering. So 5 different themes x 3 seasons is 15 outfits! If I have two of each that's 30. This gets tricky!
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Stottie Girl

Quote from: Charlotte Kitty on Today at 06:06:31 AMI love all the variety of clothing I can now access. But need to find a way to control it better as too easy to get soo much stuff and still have gaps. Thinking of just working out a list of styles, occasions and seasons. Then having maximum two outfits for each. Also trying to work out which things I can pair. Its hard as my love of fashion crosses so many genres. On one hand I want really nicely coordinated outfits and dresses for work, good but normal looking outfits for going out and everyday normal outfits. Then more out there Kawaii / bright / cute outfits for both going out and everyday. Then multiply these across 2-3 seasons with layering. So 5 different themes x 3 seasons is 15 outfits! If I have two of each that's 30. This gets tricky!
You need a bigger wardrobe Charlotte!
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Never trust a man who, when left alone in a room with a tea cozy, doesn't try it on - Billy Connolley
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Charlotte Kitty

Quote from: Stottie Girl on Today at 06:20:13 AMYou need a bigger wardrobe Charlotte!

There is a list of things I need including a walk in wardrobe, personal stylist, make up artist and hair dresser. May as well add a chef and housekeeper. Unfortunately I'm not a celebrity!

Charlotte x
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I've been through this and it made sense for me. I was held back by fear of getting noticed and ignorance of options. I did not want to shop in the women's section.

My first item was a pair of black skinny jeans and they passed as male. But OH they felt different and I knew they were women's! Soon I was replacing my men's clothes with women's that barely pushed into feminine. Slacks, dress shirts (there was something special about buttons on the "wrong" side...like I was retraining myself to be female).

Then I got my ears pierced and things moved faster. It felt so good and right. I marched steadily and gradually forward. Fear faded. Knowledge increased. I'm quite the fashion gal now!

It helped to shop online. More private. It helped to talk to AI about clothes.

Enjoy the journey!
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