wow yeah, this post hits on some truth... I feel raped sometimes, for some reason I remember a while ago, a guy, kind of a wierd guy who I kind of considered my friend would reach down my pants, Im sure he didnt mean to be malicious its just I never told him how uncomfortable it made me feel, i don't know why.. then he was gone. My mom sometimes talks about how she was molested and how she holds in a lot from that experience, which I feel like maybe comes in subconscious in how my family and me interact, like its just a self fulfilling prophecy, but its just in words and behavior, like they come too close to me, they don't respect my physical boundaries, or beliefs but its in a subtle enough way that I can't really say anything, or I just seem crazy, like its not that big of a deal and I should get over it. They have so much fear about my life style, about what I do that I know is right, and that even they can't justify as being wrong for any real reason, but yet they feel its right to try and suppress (maybe just subconsciously) all the things I do that allow me to fully express myself, live out what I feel like my purpose is and be healthy. Its horrible when the things you need to do for true healing and wholeness are things that make others see you as wrong or crazy (and as soon as that happens nothing that you say really matters), and the alternatives that they offer are not helpful in the least and in some cases more harmful. I try to deal with it at times, but I wonder if it even needs to be dealt with, or if its just that no one is saying what really needs to be said, I feel like a lot of it, is not really my problem, its the fact that I live so close to other people who live with almost a totally opposite philosophy to mine, but I don't have the strength to just go.. luckily theres still love, and we all have our issues, but we can put them aside.. hopefully lose the egotistical bull>-bleeped-< about helping eachother, let ourselves grow in whatever way we need to, and then move on, things will happen like they need to.