Quote from: transnikki on July 16, 2010, 05:53:59 AM
I know this is the androgynous board, but I didn't see a bigender one, figured this is somewhat close :-P. How would one know if they're bigender? If you are bigender, how would you tell people? Sometime I wonder if I am, but I have a hard enough time already convincing people I'm a girl, I don't even wanna get involved in it :-p. Are there different kinds of bigender? How would you know if you're only one gender? E.g. androgynes how do you know you're not both a guy & a girl, but in between?
These days I am in between. I don't present female in any way. People just think they see some guy. I'm only dysphoric under certain conditions.
Post Merge: July 18, 2010, 06:42:39 PM
Quote from: rejennyrated on July 16, 2010, 06:17:05 AM
My understanding is that this board applies a very broad definition to Androgyne,
That's right, if you're part broad, you may be an androgyne
Post Merge: July 18, 2010, 08:27:11 PM
Quote from: ativan on July 16, 2010, 11:13:21 AM
I don't feel welcome here......despite feeling a closeness to many here that identify as androgyne. When I first came to Susans, I was looking for information. When I looked in this section, I found what I was looking for. And more. I had no idea that so many others thought of themselves along similiar lines.
But, I suppose it's my comments and the whatever attitude that is interrupted from them that gives me the impression that others don't see me as fitting in here or at Susan's in general. Not that unusual.....I've never fit in anywhere for any length of time.
Other than the one who spouts off with short seemingly knowing answers without explanations, I have found a wealth of answers and ideas from the rest that helps me understand myself and has given me somewhat of a direction.
Do I fit in? I think so. Do I feel welcome to this section? No. Will I continue reading the post's? Of course. The degree of intelligent logical posts are like a warm blanket that keep my mind away from the cold cynical state that it seems to be in most of the time.
Hi,
You should feel welcome. I'm not around much anymore, but maybe others are just stopping by briefly too. Dropping by for an hour now and then kind of prevents me from mingling the way I used to.
I can't tell you if you fit in. I guess only you would know that. It may just be the cycle. Sometimes you're washed over with warmth, and other times, you can hear the crickets, or feel like you missed the train.
