Well, thanks to all of the positive feedback, i've taken the first step, and have started looking for someone to talk to. Unfortunetly i'm having a bit of trouble. This sort of thing is not normally advertised for reasons i understand, unfortunetly, the one i have found lives in the next city and tells me that public transportation would be a real pain to get through. As I have no car, and he happens to take the days off that i'm off work, i'm in a bit of a pickle.
But i'm still going to press on, someone has to know something about this around here, and if necessary i can wait 6 weeks till my scheadule changes. And at worse i'll take leave. But I AM going to see this through.
Wish me luck! 😀