How Desperate to become a Woman!?

[Wild Flower]

I found a guy who will.... (oh another thread), finance the whole transsexual journey... I found him on a transgendered dating website that was recommended here yesterday so I been chatting with him all morning.

So he will finance..

hormones, SRS, breast augmentation, FFS, and he'll make be passable basically...

He has a weird fetish about this too, but he seems like a normal guy besides this........

Am I am insane but I am seriously considering this guy's offer, he'll take me all the way since he knows how to do this; doctor visits, psychiatrist visits, and all. Free room and board too...

[Amy85]

I'd be very worried about getting into something so serious with someone you've just met... for safety reasons among others.

[tekla]

One: nothing is ever 'free.'  You'll pay for it somehow. 

Two: Since this 'journey' takes a couple of years what happens when you get halfway there and he's found someone else to 'finance'.

[Wild Flower]

One: nothing is ever 'free.'  You'll pay for it somehow. 

Two: Since this 'journey' takes a couple of years what happens when you get halfway there and he's found someone else to 'finance'.

Well, I'm paying my time I guess cleaning and stuff. And he does this as a serious "hobby" like I said, he's weird lol.

[tekla]

I'm paying my time I guess cleaning and stuff.

You know I can get you backstage, ask me how.  (Note: It does not involve cooking, cleaning or any of that).

he's weird
Are you ready for how weird weird really gets in the real world?

[Wild Flower]

I'm paying my time I guess cleaning and stuff.

You know I can get you backstage, ask me how.  (Note: It does not involve cooking, cleaning or any of that).

he's weird
Are you ready for how weird weird really gets in the real world?

Well he's not so weird that I am turning this down yet.... I am looking at life through every angle possible.

[tekla]

Well here's the way that seems to give the most success to the most people in the "life" game.  Find a way to do it yourself.

[JungianZoe]

Well, I'm paying my time I guess cleaning and stuff. And he does this as a serious "hobby" like I said, he's weird lol.

A freelancing financier of femininity?  I'm with the others... something is rotten in the state of Denmark.

[JessicaH]

IF you consider going forward with this, I'd start with background checks, full credit reports, etc.  It's amazing what you can learn about someone with those documents.

[VeryGnawty]

he's weird
Are you ready for how weird weird really gets in the real world?

My first guess would be:  no.

If I found someone who would be willing to pour thousands of dollars of his own money to change my sex, I would be running for the hills.  That has "bad news" written all over it.

[Hikari]

Sounds too good to be true, I mean it could be legit...but, personally I was never one to play the odds when they seem that stacked against me. Be careful, desperation can lead to some pretty poor judgment.

Whatever you do, have a legal binding contract for any deals you make with anyone. If someone isn't willing to put it in writing and have it notarized, then they are too risky to even take a hand out from in my view.

[kate durcal]

I found a guy who will.... (oh another thread), finance the whole transsexual journey... I found him on a transgendered dating website that was recommended here yesterday so I been chatting with him all morning.

So he will finance..

hormones, SRS, breast augmentation, FFS, and he'll make be passable basically...

He has a weird fetish about this too, but he seems like a normal guy besides this........

Am I am insane but I am seriously considering this guy's offer, he'll take me all the way since he knows how to do this; doctor visits, psychiatrist visits, and all. Free room and board too...

I have been following your postings, and I am going to assume the best about you. You are indeed a wildflower, an young, confused, desperate, lonely girl trying to find your way in this world.

Many pf the nice Gals in this forum have give you good advice, yet you keep coming with this threads like the trip to the Netherlands, and now the rich weird guy who....etc. Well, if  you go through with one of this stories, you may find yourself facing a serial killer.

I know that this is not what you want to hear, but I feel sympathy for you. Calm down and work for what ever you want, there are not easy ways out.

Hugs,

Kate D

[heatherrose]

"bad news" written all over it.

If you don't think he is expecting some "TAT" for buying you some "TITS"
I am selling time shares at my ocean front resort in Arizona and for a limited time
I am offering a 27% discount to all my good friends here at Susan's.
They're going fast, I assume I can put you down for TWO?

[tekla]

Worse part is reality is even less glamorous than Silence of the Lambs.

[heatherrose]

....he does this as a serious "hobby" like I said, he's weird lol.

He's making himself a woman suit, like I said, he's weird lol.

[April Dawne]

Nice work Heather, thank you

[Wild Flower]

Nice work Heather, thank you

Thanks for the link lol

I found the guy through that transgendered site

anyways...
we haven't chat since yesterday,

but hes real, but you're right, he's expecting sex lol

[April Dawne]

I had a profile there for awhile but seemed to get nothing but ->-bleeped-<-s or really creepy guys that I would never bother with. Like any online thing, being careful and watching out for yourself is important.

[Joelene9]

  This sounds too good to be true.  Sounds like a scammer or a sugar daddy.  Be very careful here.
  Joelene

[Sephirah]

I guess the question you have to ask yourself is whether you want to be seen as a person or a project.