"but I can not be a women , in a mans body, that likes women."
Why not? I am! Lots of other trans-dykes on here too! Sexuality and gender are two totally different things. You can be transsexual and straight, bi, gay, or even asexual.
Also a lot of us seem to change with transition. Whether it is due to hormones reconfiguring the brain, or the freeing of ones personality from previous inhibitions is uncertain. A transsexual woman is just another sort of woman, like rich/poor, black/white, tall/short,fat/thin. Nobody is unable to be a lesbian because they are too tall.
Having tried a relationship with a bloke, I have to say that although it was pleasant at the time, I now have no desire to repeat the experience. From shortly before I started HRT, and began living as a woman full-time, I now find the idea of sex with a man to be incomprehensible. Sort of like overnight forgetting a foreign language totally, after being fluent. You know you did it, but can't work out how.
I have come to the conclusion that there are as many forms of sexuality as there are people on the planet. As long as it is consensual, between two adults, and no-one gets hurt, who cares.
Karen.
