A bit of history I have always been sensitive to medications and have had unusual side effects to many. Also I have never been one to have headaches, rarely get them (maybe once a year) and normally are minor ones that a single aspirin or Advil deals with. Years ago I tried to self prescribe some HRT and started with the "normal dose" estradiol I got from a girl friend to try that she was taking. I got a nasty headache after a couple of days, felt like crap and decided I wasn't really ready to mess with this and forgot about HRT for a while
I started real HRT a few months ago after I got letter etc and decided to get serious about this. The doc started me out on spiro and slowly increased to what appears to be the "normal" dosage. I did this for about a month, was dizzy the first week a bit but think it was from not drinking enough water. Soon I felt no negative side effects at all. I love the results from this, feel calm/normal for the first time in my life, sex drive reduced to a nice level and all that. Have slight breast growth from just this and see my face smoothing out. All the "side effects" are good ones.
The problem began when I started on E. First we tried the normal estradiol generic pills. Again he started me out on a low dose. The first day was fine but the 2nd day I started feeling irritable and "hostile", also a dull headache. By day 3 I had a nasty headache but stuck with it thinking it would go away with "treatment" or maybe as the dosage increased these side effect would diminish. I increased the dosage at the rate he suggested up to his recommended dose (which seems to be a normal starting dose for most people) over a week. After about 5 days the headache was constant and the worst I have ever had in my life. 10 days in I had been on this "normal starting dose" for about 4 days and the headache was so bad it was hard to even see clearly and I didn't feel like doing anything. Aspirin nor Advil seemed to have any effect. I was miserable. As badly as I want to be on E I said "F this" called him and he agreed to stop this med and I should come see him. About 3 days after I stopped E the headache went away and I felt fine.
He thought maybe we tried to get up to the starting dose too quickly for my system but he also said (he has been doing HRT for 15 years) he has never started anyone out as slowly as he did me. This time he tried premirin creme and figured out a low dose to start out on. It was ~ 1/10 the dose he -started- me on last time. He wanted me to stick to this very low dose, applied to my upper leg, for a week and if no bad side effects, increase etc. Well even with this diff med and much lower dose, I had the same side effects with the same intensity. By the 4th day my head felt like it was going to explode. I called him after about a week and he was baffled but agreed something about this med was triggering these migraine headaches.
So the last attempt he prescribed the lowest dose patch (vivelle-dot estraiol), he said it should even out the E and that might help. Well same side effect and intensity even at this really low dose. The first day is fine, the second day it starts to ramp up and by the 3rd day I have a 24/7 nasty headache. I suffered through 2 weeks of this hoping that I would adjust but no dice. I'm lucky right now I'm not working as this wasn't like "a light headache", this was the "I don't want to walk outside or do anything" kind. Again we agreed this just wasn't going to work and within a few days I was feeling fine after I discontinued use.
Obviously this has me bummed out but I'm trying to be realistic about all this. Clearly life with a 24/7 migraine headache isn't something that is going to improve my quality of life. The spiro is making me feel better and I like how I feel on it. My main goal for HRT was more for emotional and facial changes not the boobs part. Also I want to lose my body hair. This last 2 weeks he added finasteride to help deal with that and so far see no bad side effects from that med. He has considered trying progesterone but finds no real information on a spiro/progesterone without E combo. Plus I have no idea if I can tolerate that either.
I feel like I'm kinda at the end of my rope on this HRT thing. I'm fine taking the spiro and something for my body hair. For me, these nasty headaches just aren't bearable and I can't function like that. I'm not sure if there are ANY other options for any other sort of E, even something that has had limited success. I would be willing to try something but it appears these estradiol type meds and me don't get along. Also not sure what progesterone without the other E meds would do?
I feel anything is better than nothing and again, I'm mainly looking for a more feminine outwards appearance, nicer skin and smoother face, not huge boob growth. If I have to just do the spiro, well life has dealt me harder things to deal with so I'll accept it and get on with my life. If anyone has any ideas, I'm open to suggestions, especially if any of you have had to deal with this.