Never been a fan of hate crime stuff either. Murder is murder, I don't see how a non-hate crime murder is any less dead, or with any less hate involved, then a positive hate crime murder. Short of wearing sheets and/or Nazi uniforms to the crime itself, it's almost impossible to prove.
And my guess - though people aren't going to like it - is that if you really, really do a good job tracking anti-transgender violence and crime you'll find that the instances are about what the general population rate is, and, at that, like all crime in the US the poorer or more minority you are the more likely its going to be you as the crime victim. When was the last time a white, middle-class trans-women was murdered?