I'm still struggling on the clothes front. Bear in mind that half the time I have to deal with people they know me by my female name, etc. (even though I identify as male and I look andro). So my wardrobe is about 60/40 male/female clothes. I'm in my 30s but I still wear skinny jeans and tshirts and that sort of thing but not all the time or for every occasion. That's mostly just bumming around the house on a daily basis or out and about without specific purpose (just like doing errands or things like that). I need more "grown up" clothes for professional situations and a change from the constant t-shirts and jeans but I definitely don't want very feminine clothes or the traditional male type of clothes (do not suggest khaki pants and polo shirts... just.don't!). Basically I'm trying to work on the killer androgynous wardrobe! And by killer I mean fashion-forward (without being trendy), and stuff that just looks damn good on me - fits properly, etc. Needless to say, this has been tough. I still feel like I can't really put things together or accessorize. I try, but I feel like a total dork doing it - or feel like I end up looking bad.
I can post a pic of me or pics of some of the clothes I do have if folks want to help me try and "match" things or put outfits together (maybe some others in the same boat might get helped with some tips!). I'll accept general tips as well. I do know that not everything looks good one me and I just shouldn't wear certain things. I'm only 5'2" - 5'3" (depending on what shoes I'm wearing), 130lbs. I notice so much stuff seems to be made for taller people ... or super skinny people ... or basically just NOT me. I just spent 4 hours shopping today and came back with one shirt and one t-shirt, neither of which really add amazing things to my wardrobe.
