So basically I lay down the facts
* I don't want my family know where I live
- I live with an older gay male
* They think I am in another state, even though I'm in the same state
So eventually they will wonder where I live and might visit me, but I don't want them to ever visit me in the next 2-4 years, since that would be horrible so it's better I visit them but they don't visit me.
How can I do that?