the pay was poor and Chris hated the job
Odd how often those two things go together like peanut butter and jelly. ->-bleeped-<-ty job, ->-bleeped-<-ty money, and because everyone around you is also pretty much doing the same ->-bleeped-<-ty job for the same ->-bleeped-<-ty money the bitterness and hostility just mushrooms. Taking the best places/situations/jobs I've had, and comparing them against the worst places/situations/jobs I've had I'll tell you that I'd work for half the amount of money in a happy, productive environment. However, it goes without saying that the the best places/situations/jobs I've had were also the highest paying.
And 'education' is a very sweeping term. Mostly it's been used here to refer to college and other degree programs, but there are other forms of education and knowledge. You can have all the college degrees and people with superior social skills will beat you out every time. And it's not just going to do itself either. Hustle baby, hustle. The person who is up at 6 and doing emails and phone calls by 6:10 is going to beat out the people not doing that EVERY SINGLE TIME. Most excuses, reasons, and rationales are just long-winded ways of saying "I'm lazy as ->-bleeped-<-."
I am demanding accountability.
Me too. So answer this...
I mange through hard work and charm to earn 2 doctor, 1 maters, and i m working in a second master.
Really? Because I'm pretty close to calling shenanigans on that. And I'm sure I'm not alone in thinking that no one with that kind of education would misspell 'manage', and also misspell one of the advanced degrees you've received, you missed the tense on 'manage', 'doctor' should be plural, 'i m' need both a capitol letter and an apostrophe, second use of 'master' (which though some cosmic accident you seem to have stumbled into spelling correctly) should also be a plural. And, and, and, you don't work 'in' a masters degree, you work 'in' a master program. You work 'on' a degree. I'll bet there are even more, but my brain pretty much refused to really try to read that sentence anymore.
When I taught college, at a big science and engineering school, you'd get an 'F" on your paper after 5 basic grammar mistakes. I refused to read past that. Really, if you didn't care enough to write it correctly and proofread it, why should I be bothered? When I went to college as an undergraduate same deal, irregardless of what subject you were writing in, or about. You had 7 (SEVEN) in one sentence. My students at the prison where I taught a class or two didn't do that badly. And don't try with any of that 'I'm not good at typing" jive. Anyone with 2 Ph.D.s and a masters degree is going to be one hell of a typist after they are done writing those dissertations and the thesis.
People with doctorates (which is what the degree is really called, and anyone who has one knows that), are pretty much incapable of those kind of mistakes, because they don't make it to that level. Period. They are not allowed to become Doctors of Philosophy if they can't write. And people capable of doing that level of work, and doing it right, don't allow themselves to ever vary from that standard either.
Oh yeah, as anyone who has gone through the slice of hell known as a PhD program knows that 'charm' has less than zero value in getting anything accomplished in their program. You save the charm for the drunk chicks at the campus bars on Friday night. Or try to 'charm' someone, like a third grader, to show you how to use a spell check/grammar check program on the computer.
