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JenJen2011 · August 08, 2011, 11:01:16 AM

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Lisbeth · August 08, 2011, 11:27:49 AM

Been through all those feelings. Guard your heart carefully. If he broke it once, he can do it again. It's okay to be friends, but... Maybe he will come to love you, but don't count on it.

JenJen2011 · August 08, 2011, 11:52:06 AM

Quote from: Lisbeth on August 08, 2011, 11:27:49 AM
Been through all those feelings. Guard your heart carefully. If he broke it once, he can do it again. It's okay to be friends, but... Maybe he will come to love you, but don't count on it.

Yeah, you're right. Thanks for replying.

espo · August 08, 2011, 12:33:23 PM

Quote from: Lisbeth on August 08, 2011, 11:27:49 AM
Been through all those feelings. Guard your heart carefully. If he broke it once, he can do it again. It's okay to be friends, but... Maybe he will come to love you, but don't count on it.

+1

AbraCadabra · August 08, 2011, 01:21:33 PM

To answer your OP, I think he LIKES you --- but he doesn't LOVE you.

And I think you loved him, and so you have not forgotten, and may get sucked into the same old emotion.
Been there got the cap, got the t-shirt.

I even today would not trust myself in such a situation. It feels like a setup for more pain in the short run, never mind long run.

My 2 cents,
AND A BIG BIG HUG, babe,
Axelle

JenJen2011 · August 08, 2011, 01:29:36 PM

Quote from: Axélle on August 08, 2011, 01:21:33 PM
To answer your OP, I think he LIKES you --- but he doesn't LOVE you.

And I think you loved him, and so you have not forgotten, and may get sucked into the same old emotion.
Been there got the cap, got the t-shirt.

I even today would not trust myself in such a situation. It feels like a setup for more pain in the short run, never mind long run.

My 2 cents,
AND A BIG BIG HUG, babe,
Axelle

Thank you Axelle.

When we spoke last week he told me I could text him anytime. I sent him a couple over the weekend which he didn't respond to but then again I wasn't asking him a question. I sent him another one today which he did respond to but I think I will to stop. I don't want to get hurt again. He knows where to reach me so if he wants to chat, I'll let him hit me up.

JulieC. · August 08, 2011, 01:39:18 PM

As long as you know you'll never be more than friends then pursue it otherwise leave it alone. If you're still in love with him leave it alone.

AbraCadabra · August 08, 2011, 01:48:32 PM

JenJen2011
gosh I can so feel what is going on with you.

The lessons of love can be hard, and who knows why?

JUST DON'T GET BURNED AGAIN. But you, as all of us, have to do your own learning and make our own mistakes. Painful as it may be.

Bed time for me now, I'm getting emo :-)

Axelle

BillieTex · August 12, 2011, 06:59:10 PM

Jen Jen you are having the feelings of the heart that those luckey enough to have been born without needing a psychical correction feel - unfortunately with the good comes the bad, or hard times. If you do persue this be very watchfull - he sounds like a great guy and a player, not of guys are both one and the same at certain ages.
sending you a hug and great hope and strength of heart

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