HRT, second puberty and growing up some more...

[wendy]

Hi Jolene,
I loved hopscotch.  I still love to jump around.  I am an interesting "whatever".   I did get nice skin and "C's".  Hormones do less when you pass 50.  I feel it changes mind more than body.  I do love colors!

[AbraCadabra]

Wendy,
lucky girl with "Cs", eh :-)

Did you know that in France there was a judgement (yeah, they're actually still allowed to judge over there :-) that breast be the primary indication of whether you female --- or not.

I like that, so you actually are 'allowed', if you just know so, to be transsexual, never mind the status in your knickers. As much at it seems contrary to what some in this forum at times seem to suggest.

Axelle

[wendy]

Many genetic girls have small breasts.  I think B is size for most of world.  I think if genetic girls overeat then C is average.

Many of MTF's got breast augmentations that I know.  However BA's are not breast tissue but silicone/saline.

Sometimes my breasts still hurt.  Endo told me that is normal for girls.

A very nice change is that my breasts are very sensitive.  A sad thing is my close friends like guys and they let me know.
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So in France MTF can get BA and qualify?  FTM simply remove breasts in France?

My thin 6 foot tall friend has been taking hormones for many years.  She is flat and might be up to an A.  People call her Mame without her doing anything.  She would not qualify in France because she has such little breast tissue?
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I do enjoy pretty outfits.  They still are rather plain.
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I no longer have T production mechanism.  I am not sure if that would qualify to change gender marker.  It seems like it should in my opinion.  I think SRS is only change needed to get gender marker changed in United States.

Wendy,
lucky girl with "Cs", eh :-)

Did you know that in France there was a judgement (yeah, they're actually still allowed to judge over there :-) that breast be the primary indication of whether you female --- or not.

I like that, so you actually are 'allowed', if you just know so, to be transsexual, never mind the status in your knickers. As much at it seems contrary to what some in this forum at times seem to suggest.

Axelle

[AbraCadabra]

Wendy,
to qualify, I'm NOT talking SOC, which is something else but COURT OF LAW.

If there be a discrimination charge contenting you are male for what ever reason, and you have breasts the judge with go by you having breast (visible) and accept for female status.

If you sneak BA between the time of dispute and your court appearance I guess it would not count --- unless the judge be satisfied you look female, with or with out BA.

BTW, any change in gender marker in Germany is essentially ALSO only passed by a judge, assisted by a psychiatrist experienced in gender issues. And ALL is ONLY done in Berlin!

Wat vie can seh about set here, hm?! Can vie pass or not, dat is de queshn?!
(Judge consulting assistent... ja)

Axelle

[wendy]

Wendy,
to qualify, I'm NOT talking SOC, which is something else but COURT OF LAW.

If there be a discrimination charge contenting you are male for what ever reason, and you have breasts the judge with go by you having breast (visible) and accept for female status.

If you sneak BA between the time of dispute and your court appearance I guess it would not count --- unless the judge be satisfied you look female, with or with out BA.

BTW, any change in gender marker in Germany is essentially ALSO only passed by a judge, assisted by a psychiatrist experienced in gender issues. And ALL is ONLY done in Berlin!

Wat vie can seh about set here, hm?! Can vie pass or not, dat is de queshn?!
(Judge consulting assistent... ja)

Axelle, wrong accent.  Remember Robert Di Nero in Taxi?  U talkin' ta me?  R u talkin' ta me?  R U TALKIN' TA ME? Bang Bang Bang!  Would I have to go to a male prison?  Can you take a shower by yourself in prison?  Would they let me go to female prison?  It would make sense to go to female prison as I am about as strong as a big female. 

[AbraCadabra]

Wendy,
if having any intend going to ANY prison ANYWHERE you better had your bottom fixed, sharp-ish, like real fast!

I'll have mine, so I might consider a nice femme prison to feed me if all turns South?

Yet NEVER underestimate some very strong dykey females. They often in there just  for some very good reason, being weak in body may not be one of them.

Not sure your HRT, second puberty and all, and even after having grown up some, may make you a good match then :-)

Axelle

[Ann Onymous]

Yet NEVER underestimate some very strong dykey females. They often in there just  for some very good reason, being weak in body may not be one of them.

As one of those 'dykey females' who also happens to have considerable experience in the criminal justice field, I would remind you that almost everyone in prison is in there for 'some very good reason.' 

[AbraCadabra]

Thanks, for expert confirmation, Ann.

As I said either way not a good thing to wind up in there (prison), with OR without SRS.

We might just get too much "attention" from either side where ever they'd put us.

Slipped again, eh. May only call myself a dyke, femme-trans-dyke if you wish, not PC for any other references, yes?

SA is a bit less PC and sorry I keep on stumbling.
Not that it ever would cross my mind to call anyone names.
Not even sure butch-lesbian is allowed over your place (US)?

Tough negotiating in trying to say things at times, the usual, eh.
Was hooked up with a lawyer for 19 years, I feel the vibrations...

So, please no offence yet once AGAIN.

Axelle

[Ann Onymous]

Slipped again, eh. May only call myself a dyke, femme-trans-dyke if you wish, not PC for any other references, yes?

when used by a non-lesbian, dyke oftentimes carries the same connotation as a non-black person using the N word...in other words it was rarely a term of endearment if you catch my drift.

Not even sure butch-lesbian is allowed over your place (US)?

Butch is not used near as much as it once was, although still enjoys common use in some parts of the country...it began to fade where I am when there was a shift away from the butch-femme dichotomy.  But as with 'dyke' it is a term that is descriptive within the community and is more often associated with and used as a slight by those outside of the community...

[AbraCadabra]

* when used by a non-lesbian, dyke oftentimes carries the same connotation as a non-black person using the N word...in other words it was rarely a term of endearment if you catch my drift. *

And when used by a BI person?? Please tell.

In any case I'm a bit more of a lessie than a hetero, so what then?

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OK, butch IS a bit old, so over here we'd call that a "diesel-dyke" *)
One big mama that would be.

Thanks for feedback Ann, um
Axelle
PS: *) imagine that now in your place --- could get life threatening?

[Ann Onymous]

Talk about thread drift... 

* when used by a non-lesbian, dyke oftentimes carries the same connotation as a non-black person using the N word...in other words it was rarely a term of endearment if you catch my drift. *

And when used by a BI person?? Please tell.

In any case I'm a bit more of a lessie than a hetero, so what then?

Situational context...if you are among friends, you could probably get away with it.  If you are just at the party and don't really know the other guests, probably ought not to use the D word...

just sayin' is all

OK, butch IS a bit old, so over here we'd call that a "diesel-dyke" *)
One big mama that would be.

Oh, I am familiar with the term...but generally speaking, even women who use the term except in a few select areas are probably looking for an ass-whooping when that term comes out of someones mouth. 

PS: *) imagine that now in your place --- could get life threatening?

Generally I don't fear for my safety because of being lesbian...even near the lake property, which is in a relatively conservative area north of Houston, most people who know me know that I am lesbian.  My regular bartenders let me know when prospective dating targets are expected in or when they have a lesbian friend who is on the prowl.  Nonetheless, I still remain cognizant of my surroundings and I do maintain a .40-cal Colt that has no safety...and has a clip full of hollow-point ammunition. 

Within Austin, I am in perhaps the most liberal area of the State.  We had domestic-partner benefits in Travis County back in the 80's and we also had an openly lesbian sheriff for a period of time.  Margo was good people...

[AbraCadabra]

Thanks Ann,
good insights.
I'm ALWAYS a nice bird, mostly, if not stepped on selfsame toes.
Also at parties.
All within frame work of puberty and growing up some more? Yes, I think so.

There are these early puberty issues aggravating lack of correct communication. This in my own knowing, um... can piss people off and quite unintentional so.

Not sure if .40 cal / .22 ? be good thing if not having arrived at certain mature level past 2nd puberty.

Since I am rather old (not emotionally as yet) I still easily can claim female privilege of "oldest" in rank.
Does come useful at times provided educated people are present that know about "Knigge 2000" proper manners for all, or most situation.

Axelle