There are all kinds of goths. There are the Frilly Romantic kind of goths, there are the Deathrock goths, the Trad Goths (looking like they stepped out of a photo from the 80's), the Victorian goths... and the list goes on and on and on. The frillier type of goths (be they romantic, victorian, vampires, whatever) tend to use more feminine clothes in general, as lots of frills and lace and stuff makes a softer look.