I feel I can relate from the other side of the road...
I just imagine being pre- or non-op, presenting and passing OK as female and some one (boy OR girl) grabs be between my legs --- as a 'friendly hello' or just to see what gives. Hellllllll !!!!
I think I would want to throw up all over them, right there and then.
So much for hitting our GID brick-wall, full on.
But as was suggested, you have to address it to prevent future occurrences.
If they want to be puked all over, let them try. Eish.
Axelle