Okay -- so for 40 years of my life everyone has used female pronouns and called me Robyn.
So, when I started going by Robert and using male pronouns it felt strange and awkward. I liked it but it still felt weird. I still had problems refering to myself in a male pronoun or description too. I am out to nearly everyone. I am not offically out at work but a couple folks know but everyone at work calls me Rob.
However, sometime this past week I noticed the switched happened. I noticed that hearing female pronouns and Robyn sounded weird like who is that person. I also noticed that I am using male names and pronouns when refering to myself (like dad and husband)....I have made the mental switch. It feels good!