Yeah, Pamda. I really dislike the entire 'transphobia' deal, particularly when someone is saying - and we currently have an entire thread based on this - well they must be phobic because they won't accept my store bought penis as the real deal. Look, lots of gay men are gay (and straight women straight) because they want a hot throbbing shaft of flesh that will shoot pecker snot all over their tonsils (or spray baby juice all up in their money maker), and they don't find a plastic/latex substitute to be acceptable. It's not a phobia, it's just knowing what you want.