Hi Louise,
Welcome to the best site around for 'our' generation. Susan's was a great place back in the early 2000's; now, it's totally awesome. Fancy!! 8200 people call it home. That surely must put Susan in the running for the Noble Peace Prize, in all seriousness. Back when I wasn't too sure of what was going on, Susan's gave me an incrediable amount of information that has been tested by time, and is still true today.
Although you are a young 33, don't take too long to set your plan out. If you ask a lot of us 'oldies', the one main theme to come through is, "I wish I'd done it earlier". The info is here, and so is the relationships. Enjoy the journey, it can be a rollercoaster at times, but it a most amazing one to part of. Be safe, well and happy
Lotsa luv
Catherine