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Postive thing about being a transguy :)

Started by Aaron, October 02, 2011, 10:55:12 AM

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Elijah3291

Quote from: N.Chaos on October 03, 2011, 10:24:49 PM
That just reminded me.
None of that awkward "walking into a bathroom expecting to piss and walking into a full goddamn conversation" crap anymore.
Seriously, why do women do that? Trying to wash my hands, having to elbow/shoulder/shove my way to the damn sink with these girls looking at me like I was the inconvenience? I never even pretended to understand that one.

yes OMG noting is more awkward then trying to have a dump with a room full of chick friends having a conversation and then laughing when you fart. ITS A BATHROOM, YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO POO IN THERE, NOT CHIT CHAT
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Dante

I'm thankful that being transgendered gives me a unique perspective on gender. I am free to be who I want, without caring that "such and such is not okay for boys". I understand that gender is not so straitlaced as it seems, and that boys can enjoy "girly" things, and girls can enjoy "manly" things. This perspective has done a lot to shape my personality.





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rexyrex

Quote from: Elijah on October 03, 2011, 10:26:45 PM
yes OMG noting is more awkward then trying to have a dump with a room full of chick friends having a conversation and then laughing when you fart. ITS A BATHROOM, YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO POO IN THERE, NOT CHIT CHAT

Quote from: N.Chaos on October 03, 2011, 10:24:49 PM
That just reminded me.
None of that awkward "walking into a bathroom expecting to piss and walking into a full goddamn conversation" crap anymore.
Seriously, why do women do that? Trying to wash my hands, having to elbow/shoulder/shove my way to the damn sink with these girls looking at me like I was the inconvenience? I never even pretended to understand that one.


lol i know how it feels the girls take up room while doing their make up over the sink, and there no room for you to wash your hand :L

postive thing about being a transguy is that u can get what ever side packer or so :D and standing to pee ;)
Started Testosterone: 2013
Top surgery: 2014
Bottom surgery: 2016
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GentlemanRDP

No awkward bathroom chatting.

Seriously, why in the hell do women shoot the breeze with everyone in the bathroom? o.O;
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Natkat

I never got it either and im even one of the sissy ones..
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insideontheoutside

Now this is a switch ... trying to think of something positive. I guess I'd have to go with the perspective thing. Not everyone gets to see life from both a male and female perspective and really understand what that's like.
"Let's conspire to ignite all the souls that would die just to feel alive."
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anibioman

when the girl (or guy) you really like sits on your lap and moves around she (or he) cant tell that you have a raging hard on. BTW i know this from personal experience.

and when that really hot girl (or guy) bends over to pick up her (or his) pencil right in front of you, you wont have to walk to your next class afraid to bump into someone. *wink*

Natkat

I forgot, when I where in 7-10 grade my friend use to be so jelous on me because.
1, I had been in the girls room to see naked girls,
I had even seen the teacher in underwear,
and the hottest" girl on the school where always hanging around me, sitting on me lap and so on,
I guess it where because I where the only one who didnt get a boner by it. LOL



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Hadrian

A positive thing I can think of is that guys don't feel the need to cling to each other everywhere they go or ask you to go to the bathroom with them. I'll never understand that one! Or how girls will be sitting stalls peeing and still talk to you, weird.

Another positive is learning things about relatives you never guess after coming out to them.

Being able to help out friends and their SOs during arguments. I may not "get" why women do some of the things they do, but I know where their thought process is coming from, I just don't "get" it. Make sense?

I also don't think I have the outlook that I do on some things were I born biologically male.
"You are who and what you are,
You like who and what you like,
You love who and what you love."
- Hadrian
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BMXJake

Lol, I'll say it:

SEX SKILLS

...Or is that just me? ;) :P


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Vincent E.S.

I think this one really only applies to gay transguys who are okay with outing themselves, but you can seriously screw people's minds during one of those 2 Truths & a Lie icebreaker activities.

I did this yesterday at an LGBT group and the facial expressions were priceless (everyone saw me as a cisgender gay male and were really confused).
1. I am homosexual.
2. I am female.
3. I am sexually attracted to females.
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Lee

I guess I should add in my friends.  The main group of people I hang out with is almost all straight women.  If other guys come along they are usually...I guess arm candy would be the right phrase.  I don't think I would have ended up getting to know them if I had been born physically male.
Oh I'm a lucky man to count on both hands the ones I love

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TheAwesomePrussia

Not sure how graphic I can be, but my girlfriend says I'm an amazing kisser, in many ways. She says I always touch her the right way in the right spots.
Helps that I know first hand where those spots are~
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JohnAlex

I don't know if this is 100% a positive thing... but you learn who people really are. 

I've learned lately how quick some people will turn their back on me because I'm trans.  And I've also learned how people I wasn't close to will reach their hand out to me in support because I'm trans.

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The Hawk

Positive things about being trans in my opinion are:

1. Like so many of you already said, none of that awkward chatting in bathrooms!

2. No embarrassing random boners!

3. I think that once you find someone like an SO, you know they like you for who you are and not just something physical!
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Monster

Quote from: Logan Bann on October 05, 2011, 10:27:03 AM
Another binder plus, it's got a nice calming effect when you first put it on.  I don't mean the dysphoria-lessening effect, I just mean the pressure itself has a nice hug sort of feeling.

Sorry I just don't get that Logan, I bloody hate the binder! I hate putting it on every day the best feeling is when I get to pull it off at night.. I will enjoy when I get to throw the bloody things away next summer after me surgery!

And my positive thought about being trans hmm honestly guys I read all of ur's and their cool what u all said, but I'm sorry I find being a transexual a curse :-/ 

Just how I feel....
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Dante

Quote from: Monster on October 10, 2011, 11:38:54 AM
And my positive thought about being trans hmm honestly guys I read all of ur's and their cool what u all said, but I'm sorry I find being a transexual a curse :-/ 

Just how I feel....

I agree, but I think the point is more to find at least one good thing that came from it...





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InstantRamen

Quote from: JohnAlex on October 10, 2011, 12:15:09 AM
I don't know if this is 100% a positive thing... but you learn who people really are. 
...  And I've also learned how people I wasn't close to will reach their hand out to me in support because I'm trans.

i agree, ever since i've come out, even to the pple im not so close with, i've gotten alot closer with them. We talk as if we've known each other for years or somethin xD

Kind of a good feeling to know they've actually got your back
Courage is not the absence of fear, but the ability to overcome it.
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Monster

Quote from: Dante on October 10, 2011, 08:25:53 PM
I agree, but I think the point is more to find at least one good thing that came from it...

Yes I'm fully aware of that.. Sorry if I wasn't able to pin point a positive thing about being born this way.
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Natkat

I think, some of the positive thing as well is the people I have meet.
I have meet people I felt where really great and really close even some I felt in love with.
if I was born cis I problebly wouldnt be as close to them or I wouldnt know them since some of them are in the comparing of transgender comunety while others is people i have knowed when I came out and had someone to share my secret with.
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