I'm not that much into manga, but I do enjoy my fair dose of anime. I haven't really seen any anime of the gender bending genre though. I wanted to watch Hourou Musuki but couldn't find a complete download for it.
I also have Kampfer sitting here for me to watch, but I'm not quite sure if I wanna watch it yet, as it sounds quite perverted, and I'm not really into that sort of thing.
I do like love story anime the most though, like Clannad, Da Capo, Ai Yori Aoshi, etc.
But my favorite anime ever is Kimi Ga Nozomu Eien. The thing is, I don't recommend anyone to actually watch it because it's very sad and made me depressed for a few days after having watched it

Lynn