Chivalry is not dead but that has actually created a slight problem for me. It's very hard for me to make the mental change from male to female as relates to accepting that chivalry, as opposed to offering it. For example, accepting a male opening a door for me while I'm en femme or my not offering to buy a round of drinks when I feel it's my turn (while sitting at a table with a male). Just two examples but I could list more. It's very hard to adjust to having things done for you that you feel are your responsibility due to your male mindset.
