Hi! I'm a female bodied Pansexual Monoamorous Androgyne from Upstate NY.
I currently present as a "Soft Butch" woman, and don't much fuss myself over pronouns, because I really don't feel like having to educate every single person I meet about gender neutrals, and I don't identify as 'he' or 'she' so they're going to get it wrong either way. I'm actually a little chuffed when I get called 'he' since 'she' happens most of the time... like it's evening the scales or something.
Here, where you get it, as among close friends, I'd love to be 'xe.'
I have been content for most of my life as being regarded someone who "doesn't really COUNT as a GIRL" but the older I get the less that's a thing, especially since I left college in 2006. Like I was going to grow into being binary gendered.
I also mostly feel like I'm not REALLY trans, compared to my FTM and MTF friends, but my closest friend, who's MFT, who apparently I inspired to transition during an attempt to get her to stop being ashamed to have aspergers, (take off the mask and be yourself, yadda yadda yadda) has in turn been encouraging me to want more than just to tolerate being regarded as a "boyish woman."
So... that's how I got here... because it seems like the only good forum out here for this... and I'm hoping to learn, and stick around long enough to pass on that knowledge to others.
8^)
PS: I'm also super sad that "Negative. I am a meat Popsicle" was not a valid answer for "Are you human?" in the spambot filter questions.
