Interesting questions.
Just by way of background, and how some of our members identified, we have a staff member several years ago name "Mia and Marq," who used "we, they, them, their".
Also there's another retired staff member, "Ken/Kendra," who presents as "Kendra", who still occasionally posts.
After you get 15 or more posts, you will be able to use the personal messaging system, and look at the profiles of your fellow members.
You are in the right place. We sometimes call it the "Unicorn Forest," because of magic of our members.
I can't wait for you to meet "Edge". And "Auntie Shan." And the grand and great guru of all things non-binary is "Ativan." But the fact of the matter is, we are all accepting and caring in out own way. Glad you posted.