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Started by JenJen2011, October 26, 2011, 12:52:00 PM

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Annah

Well, we can just let her type it all out and to let her believe in all of what she says because I am pretty positive no one else here finds any credibility behind her arguments.

Jacelyn is an armchair gender analyst. She gets her experience from 4chan.com
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Miniar

Quote from: JenJen2011 on October 31, 2011, 01:34:19 PM
I don't know why people keep dissecting Jacelyn's posts. She's never gonna stop. And it's all still irrelevant to the topic.

Stubborn...
Don't really like letting misinformation stand unaddressed and unchallenged.



"Everyone who has ever built anywhere a new heaven first found the power thereto in his own hell" - Nietzsche
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Jacelyn

Quote from: Miniar link=topic=108807.msg822719#msg822719
date=1320083795

Unless he's gay. Gay men experience zero arousal from looking at attractive
women. This is one of the ways you're failing to take into account the fact that
non-heterosexual people exist.

Gay still have biological need for seminal release, he may has no interest in
women, but if the object is male, he will perceived the sexual attraction. It is his
male biological mechanism that make him different from gay women (lesbians).
The latter must relied on romantic sentiments, and physical sex is secondary to
romantic elements.

QuoteTwo words, nocternal emissions. That is to say, if one doesn't masterbate,
or have sex, the body will ejaculate on it's own.

Not necessary, it just mean the male will, after a period of sexual abstinate, find
sexual release more explosive due to more accumulation of the seminal fluid, the
pleasure is then amplified by visual stimulation. The latter amplifying element is
what motivate men to seek more than one partner. This is purely a biological
differences that effect their pschological demands.

Quote
Your words.

You are nick picking, and not reading into the meaning.
Also merely citing others' words without inputing your own is pointless, if I'm
going to cut and paste oppositing views from others, then it will again neutralize
their validity, and the last one who cut and paste would win.  Such exercise is
pointless. The same applied to so called statistic studies of gender pschological
behaviours, one just have to find opposing statistic studies to neutralize the point
you try to bring up with them. You have to bring up your own valid rationale to
against a view, not due to your attachment to specific words of others regardless of
source. Validity is not due to to something is being said by someone, it is whether
it is sound, reasonable and biologically valid.

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Tell me, what is the meaning of life? Why is there something rather than
nothing? What is knowledge? What is consciousness?
These are all very common philosophical questions. They are aimed at things
which we can never find a solid, provable, demonstrable answer to.

Apparently this is not the place for this type of topic, but it doesn't mean that
there is no solid, provable, demonstrable answer, otherwise why would philosophy
be required in the first place.

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Yes, science requires doubt, but it also requires measurable evidence, "proof",
before anything asserted as scientifically valid is accepted by the scientific
commuinty at all. Philosophy doesn't deal with things that are demonstrable,
measurable, etcetera and therefore it's impossible to assert a philosophical stance
or argument as "truth".
There is no such thing as "truth" in philosophy.

It is over-generalization that there is no truth in philosophy, philosophy may be
just an acedemic game to non-philosophers, but to living philosophers, it is their
parameters for knowledge.

Science is mere libraries of data on past causes and results of experimentation and
practical application in the medical and engineering fields, their combination
which is proven technology. But their existing theories are doubted, and new test
always carried out to fulfil the skeptism. This skeptism component is cause of new
innovation and discovery, without which science will simply stagnant with old
theories, and advancement is not motivated.

Philosophy is a form of science, not science a form of philosophy (or derived from
philosophy). Philosophy concerned reality, existence, mind, and consciousness, so
philosophy is also the science of reality, existence, mind, and consciousness. So
one can say that the science of reality, existence, mind, and consciousness is
philosophy, but that the science of matters (pschology), and physics is not
philosophy. And that this type of science concerned the complex technicalities
that are subjected to changes and continual improvement are non-issue to
philosophy. Philosophy does not concerned the complex (segmented)
technicalities of cause and effect components of physics, but of general (whole)
that is based empirically on the experience of reality, existence, mind, and
consciousness. It employed the devise of logic and words for understanding, after
attaining certainty of the meaning,  one incorporates the knowledge (truth) in
one's thinking, this is what being a philosopher is.

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When debating any issue, there is an implicit burden of proof on the person
asserting a claim. This means that when you assert, directly or indirectly, that the
simple binary gender mechanism is the unversal parameter that the burden of
proof lies on you to not only demonstrate that gender is binary and simple but
that it also is applicable universally (universal parameter).

Anyone can begin with experimenting with his / her body to demonstrate this
gender binary. For pre-op MTF it is easy to confirm that ejaculation associating
with a sensual visual object would be more intense and satisflying. Even for post-
op MFT with significant past experience as a normal cis-male should be able to
recall the fact. Whereas for women and FTM, they will confirm negatively of
this possibility for visual dependencies and for biologically based orgasm
mechanism. There are others biological and pschological distinctions and are what
constituted the gender division in binary mode. So the burden of prove is in
anyone who wishes to opposed the binary gender distinctions, who wishes to
neutralize it for their own versions.

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But, since you asked so nicely;
Gender taxonomy includes;
* chromosomes (46,XX; 46,XY; 47,XXY ("Klinefelter's syndrome"); 45,X0
("Turner syndrome"); 47,XYY; 47,XXX ("Triple X syndrome"); XXXX syndrome;
XXXXX syndrome, 48,XXYY syndrome, 46,XX/XY mosaic, other mosaic, and
others)
* gonads (testes, ovaries, one of each, ovotestes, other types of gonadal dysgenesis)
* hormones
* genitals (primary sexual characteristics — see
diagram for the "six class system")
* secondary sexual characteristics
* brain structure
* gender identity
* gender role
* erotic preference

Since there are people who's gender identity is neither male nor female, it is fair
to say that there aren't just those two gender identities. If there are other gender
identities, then gender isn't a simple binary where everyone is either male or
female.  If gender were a "simple" binary, then everyone would be either male or female
and no other variations would exist outside of those two classifications though
there could be some variation within such classifications.

It is a misconception that there exist a gender identity that is neither male nor
female (neither XX or XY), XXY is just 2x more female signaling in the gene,
whereas XYY is 1.5x more male signaling in the gene. XXX is 1.5x more female,
XXXX is 2x more female, XXYY and XX/XY is 1x male + female, and so on.

They are all variants within the default XX and XY binary, so how can one say
there is neither XX or XY when all of the variants contained either the XX or
XY genes.

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Not when you define males as "attracted to females" and females as "receptive to
male sexual attention".

The biological features communiucate the body messages, one is free to oppose
nature, but it is not compatible without difficulties. Nature (biological traits) is a
force over mental decision / motivation, one who live in hormony with it harnest
the force for one's wishes, but one who opposes it, lived in dishormony with self
and others. One valid reason for some who wishes to transition is due to
pschological inclination that opposes the biological imperative, a person trap in a
male body who is pschologically "receptive to male sexual attention". So without
acceptance of this gender binary distinction, then what would that valid reason
be? Anyone will just be asexual pschologically and biologically, since all gender
distinction are neutralized (luckily this will never happened!).

QuoteSee, just proved my point.
If all female persons are "receptive" then what is lesbian sex?

Both lesbian and gay have different degree of subjective and objective gender
perception than cis male and cis female, The intensity of subjective gender
clinging in lesbian and gay is less than that of the cis male and cis female,
whereas the intensity of objective gender clinging in lesbian and gay is more than
that of the cis male and cis female, so cis male and cis female are direct opposite
of the lesbian and gay in their subjective and objective gender clinging. Since in
lesbian and gay, the clinging to the objective gender is stronger, there is a sense of
giving, than receptive in both partners. So both partners can usually interchange
or shift role in different occasion in order to give to the other.

There is a valid reason that MTF who has stronger wishes to be receptive to
another advances, find preference for male partner than female partner
(lesbianhood), even though, in pre-transition their objective preference is a
female partner.

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If all female persons are "receptive" then how do they "pursue" their own sexual
pleasure?

Women pursue romantic advances by enticing guys through dressing and makeup,
gestures, soft and feminine voices. Women are more successful attained what they
want by being passive, allowing room for the guy to make his move. Physical
attraction is key, and women are very much aware and being beauty conscious for
the sake of the male's attention. If a guy behave like this, it simply turn women
off, as women expecting the opposite of the guys.

Quote
That is not taking this into account but brushing it off as irrelevant.

As mentioned, women heavily relate sex with romance, physical orgasm is not
directly relevent to this pschological expectation. Sure if come it is better, but it is
not a big issue, if it failed to come. And this failure is not relevent to her sexual
satisfaction which can be pschologically based.

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By defining males as strictly as you have, using references to their sexual arousal
pattern and genitals specifically, you've inadvertedly defined all trans women as
men.

Ironically affirmative, especially for MTF who transition after full maturity of the
male sexual reproduction system, the sex center is fully, physically developed, the
resultant higher sexual awareness cannot be reduced, but can only be transform
and channel into passive mode, if they wish to behave like the cis women. But
even with this pschological transformation, their sexual awareness still higher
than the cis women, only that it does not manifest in the manner of the male
consciousness. This is actually an advantage over the cis women, not a handicape,
since they will be able to perceive the sexual requirement of their male partner
the same level as them.

Quote
Unless it applies universally, it isn't universal, therefore it does not take into
account those that do not conform to what you are calling a universal standard.
It's not universal unless it applies Universally.
It's not universal unless it applies Universally.

What is universally applicable and is causes of compatibility and harmony, just
because someone who wishes to oppose the signal of biological design, does not
mean that decision against nature is universal (as it is against nature decision), but
the criteria of  biological design is universal.

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You can't say "All X are Y", holding it up as a "universal standard", and then
when people call you on how inaccurate that is and that not all X are Y, citing
sources and examples to back them up say that just because not all X are Y that
all X are still Y...
I mean, that's just intellectually dishonest!

No, I implied X is X, Y is Y. Male is male, female is female, there is no neutralization of their distinctions. Even in their variants, there is support of the distinctions, as without the binary distinction, there will be absence of any variants. In other words, if there is no male and female, than no transgenders, no lesbians and gays, anyone will be asexual.
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Morrigan

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JenJen, I apologize, and I hope you can excuse this interruption, sometimes an "on the spot correction" is necessary :(
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cynthialee

Quote from: Jacelyn
It is a misconception that there exist a gender identity that is neither male nor
female

Then please, explain to me my spouse who is androgyn.

Not female or male but both.

And I can assure you that my spouse is 100% an androgyn. Being seen as female or male is very distressing to hir. When socially accepted as an androgyn by hir peers ze is completely well adjusted and experiances no distress.

Kinda throws that only male and female thing out the window.

Personally I do not understand it. It confuses the heck outa me but I accept that the gender binary is not flawless.
Is the binary right in most cases? Yes. Absolutely.
However there are exceptions that disprove the rigid binary as being universal.
All I need to do is look at my spouse sitting across the room from me and I can see for a fact the gender binary is not absolute.
So it is said that if you know your enemies and know yourself, you can win a hundred battles without a single loss.
If you only know yourself, but not your opponent, you may win or may lose.
If you know neither yourself nor your enemy, you will always endanger yourself.
Sun Tsu 'The art of War'
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tekla

Don't really like letting misinformation stand unaddressed and unchallenged.

True that.  If all it takes for evil to triumph is for good men to do nothing, then it's a lot easier to let ignorance flourish (just ask Fox News).  But we seem to be stocked up on dumb these days, so ya got to do what you can to try to stem the rising tide of bad, incorrect, wrong or just absurd (dividing all people into two groups, say...) information.


what motivate men to seek more than one partner
also: boredom, bad sex, easy opportunity (low-hanging fruit), and that 'nag-nag-nag' thing ain't helping either.
FIGHT APATHY!, or don't...
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Mahsa Tezani

Quote from: Jacelyn on October 31, 2011, 09:04:37 PM

No, I implied X is X, Y is Y. Male is male, female is female, there is no neutralization of their distinctions. Even in their variants, there is support of the distinctions, as without the binary distinction, there will be absence of any variants. In other words, if there is no male and female, than no transgenders, no lesbians and gays, anyone will be asexual.

+1

Furthermore how do genes corellate to someone to grow the hair long and wear makeup? It doesn't. To think our genes influence our actions and not our environment is wrong. It is a smaller part of the overall puzzle.

I am proud to be born male...as I don't normally subscribe to the intersex theory. Physical biology  is where sex and gender characteristics are going to be judged, not to be confused with actual aesthetics.
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Constance

To address the original post, I have never met an MTF or gay male who acted this way, and I live in the SF Bay Area so I've met many of each category.

Mahsa Tezani

Quote from: Shades O'Grey on October 31, 2011, 10:38:09 PM
To address the original post, I have never met an MTF or gay male who acted this way, and I live in the SF Bay Area so I've met many of each category.

I live in the SF bay area too...

But do you go to the Castro?
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cynthialee

As my spouse just had a breast reduction due to gender issues, ze has been on T almost 2 years, and there are no other issues ze needs to adress about hir body at this point..... I would have to say that my spouse is a post op androgyn.
So it is said that if you know your enemies and know yourself, you can win a hundred battles without a single loss.
If you only know yourself, but not your opponent, you may win or may lose.
If you know neither yourself nor your enemy, you will always endanger yourself.
Sun Tsu 'The art of War'
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xxUltraModLadyxx

Quote from: cynthialee on October 31, 2011, 09:49:03 PM
Then please, explain to me my spouse who is androgyn.

Not female or male but both.

And I can assure you that my spouse is 100% an androgyn. Being seen as female or male is very distressing to hir. When socially accepted as an androgyn by hir peers ze is completely well adjusted and experiances no distress.

Kinda throws that only male and female thing out the window.

Personally I do not understand it. It confuses the heck outa me but I accept that the gender binary is not flawless.
Is the binary right in most cases? Yes. Absolutely.
However there are exceptions that disprove the rigid binary as being universal.
All I need to do is look at my spouse sitting across the room from me and I can see for a fact the gender binary is not absolute.

these are the kinds of viewpoints that somehow are an insult to post ops around here. anyway, out of curiousity. how does one get to being androgyne. biology has basically proven that gender identity is an inborn trait. the hormone mechanisms that cause a brain to develop as either male/female in utero are quite simple, but what would take place hormonally for an androgynous brain to be created?
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Jacelyn

Quote from: cynthialee on October 31, 2011, 09:49:03 PM
Then please, explain to me my spouse who is androgyn.

Not female or male but both.

And I can assure you that my spouse is 100% an androgyn. Being seen as female or male is very distressing to hir. When socially accepted as an androgyn by hir peers ze is completely well adjusted and experiances no distress.

Kinda throws that only male and female thing out the window.

Personally I do not understand it. It confuses the heck outa me but I accept that the gender binary is not flawless.
Is the binary right in most cases? Yes. Absolutely.
However there are exceptions that disprove the rigid binary as being universal.
All I need to do is look at my spouse sitting across the room from me and I can see for a fact the gender binary is not absolute.

100% androgyn implied that the body will be female by default, it depend on him / her pschological adaptation to this default female appearance. If he / she pschologically opposes this female appearances, then FTM transition is the option but will be more difficult to achieve by present technology due to compplexity to mimic the sexual function of the male reproductive organ.

Here being androgyn obviously does not neutralize the existence of either physical or pschological gender binary, but automatically demonstrate a default female biological form.
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Mahsa Tezani

Quote from: FullMoon19 on October 31, 2011, 11:38:03 PM
these are the kinds of viewpoints that somehow are an insult to post ops around here. anyway, out of curiousity. how does one get to being androgyne. biology has basically proven that gender identity is an inborn trait. the hormone mechanisms that cause a brain to develop as either male/female in utero are quite simple, but what would take place hormonally for an androgynous brain to be created?

Furthermore, how does female/male in utero translate to normally female traits?

Basically, the environment determines how an individual is ultimately going to turn out. I was a feminine gay kid growing up, but my parents stepped in the way every step to make me not... Thus, the environment is a bigger influence than genes ever will be.

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Butterflyhugs

Quote from: Mahsa the disco shark on November 01, 2011, 03:29:02 AM
Basically, the environment determines how an individual is ultimately going to turn out. I was a feminine gay kid growing up, but my parents stepped in the way every step to make me not... Thus, the environment is a bigger influence than genes ever will be.

Using "Thus" does not make a scientifically inaccurate statement any less grossly scientifically inaccurate.
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wheat thins are delicious

Quote from: Butterflyhugs on November 01, 2011, 05:56:44 AM
Using "Thus" does not make a scientifically inaccurate statement any less grossly scientifically inaccurate.

+1


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Miniar

Quote from: Jacelyn on October 31, 2011, 09:04:37 PM
Not necessary, it just mean the male will, after a period of sexual abstinate, find
sexual release more explosive due to more accumulation of the seminal fluid, the
pleasure is then amplified by visual stimulation. The latter amplifying element is
what motivate men to seek more than one partner. This is purely a biological
differences that effect their pschological demands.
Research shows that men that do not obtain manual release (due to, for example, asexuality) have nocturnal emissions.
Men do not have a "biological" need to masturbate or have sex at regular intervals.
Any emissions they "need" to do are done naturally, by the body, if no sex nor masturbation takes place.

Quote from: Jacelyn on October 31, 2011, 09:04:37 PMYou are nick picking, and not reading into the meaning.
I am addressing your statements.
You are arguing that you didn't state what you had stated.
Thus, quoting the original statement was required.

It is believed that only about 30% of human interaction is the words used, the rest is body language, tone and patterns of speech. Without tone, patterns or body language all we have is the words, which is why I make a point to say what I mean as I mean it to the best of my ability, it also means that I can not address a meaning you have not expressed.
If you feel I'm not addressing your meaning, then you haven't expressed your meaning accurately enough in the words used.

Quote from: Jacelyn on October 31, 2011, 09:04:37 PMAlso merely citing others' words without inputing your own is pointless, if I'm
going to cut and paste oppositing views from others, then it will again neutralize
their validity, and the last one who cut and paste would win.  Such exercise is
pointless. The same applied to so called statistic studies of gender pschological
behaviours, one just have to find opposing statistic studies to neutralize the point
you try to bring up with them. You have to bring up your own valid rationale to
against a view, not due to your attachment to specific words of others regardless of
source. Validity is not due to to something is being said by someone, it is whether
it is sound, reasonable and biologically valid.
I had previously addressed that statement and did not see the need to re-address it, therefore the posting of simply your words.
If you'd like to address what I said of that statement instead, then go ahead.

Also, do you have any link to a statistical study, similarly modern, which has an exact opposite result of the one I posted, thus neutralizing them?

I have provided sound research and analysis from reliable sources. Would you like to address the research, the analysis, and provide sound sources of your own to the contrary rather than simply stating that I "need" to provide my own rationale?

I could go on and on about the sky being purple, using all the big words I can think of, but without being able to demonstrate the colour of the sky (through evidence) it does not matter whether my arguments, in and of themselves, make sense. Without a sound premise, the logic can not be sound.

Quote from: Jacelyn on October 31, 2011, 09:04:37 PMApparently this is not the place for this type of topic, but it doesn't mean that
there is no solid, provable, demonstrable answer, otherwise why would philosophy
be required in the first place.
Strictly speaking, is philosophy "required"?
And does it need to have a demonstrable answer to be required?

Quote from: Jacelyn on October 31, 2011, 09:04:37 PMIt is over-generalization that there is no truth in philosophy, philosophy may be
just an acedemic game to non-philosophers, but to living philosophers, it is their
parameters for knowledge.
See, here's the thing.
I study philosophy and have for a long time.
I am often referred to as philosophically minded and have found myself often referred to as a philosopher.
Philosophy translates to a love of knowledge.
I have socialized with philosophers and scholars half my life.
None of them agree with you on this.

Quote from: Jacelyn on October 31, 2011, 09:04:37 PMScience is mere libraries of data on past causes and results of experimentation and
practical application in the medical and engineering fields, their combination
which is proven technology. But their existing theories are doubted, and new test
always carried out to fulfil the skeptism. This skeptism component is cause of new
innovation and discovery, without which science will simply stagnant with old
theories, and advancement is not motivated.
Skepticism comes from philosophy.
It is one of the oldest philosophical movements and arguably it's the very thing that philosophy is born from.

Quote from: Jacelyn on October 31, 2011, 09:04:37 PMPhilosophy does not concerned the complex (segmented)
technicalities of cause and effect components of physics, but of general (whole)
that is based empirically on the experience of reality, existence, mind, and
consciousness. It employed the devise of logic and words for understanding, after
attaining certainty of the meaning,  one incorporates the knowledge (truth) in
one's thinking, this is what being a philosopher is.
Empiricism as a philosophical school of thought is the theory that the only way to gain knowledge is through observation and experience.
It is the origin of the scientific need for empirical evidence.
Empirical evidence is when you can measure and/or display the evidence to support your theory.
What you have described is science.
After attaining certainty of the meaning, one incorporates the knowledge in one's thinking.
To attain certainty via logic and empirical data is the primary component of the scientific method.

Quote from: Jacelyn on October 31, 2011, 09:04:37 PMAnyone can begin with experimenting with his / her body to demonstrate this
gender binary. For pre-op MTF it is easy to confirm that ejaculation associating
with a sensual visual object would be more intense and satisflying. Even for post-
op MFT with significant past experience as a normal cis-male should be able to
recall the fact. Whereas for women and FTM, they will confirm negatively of
this possibility for visual dependencies and for biologically based orgasm
mechanism. There are others biological and pschological distinctions and are what
constituted the gender division in binary mode. So the burden of prove is in
anyone who wishes to opposed the binary gender distinctions, who wishes to
neutralize it for their own versions.
Incorrect.
The burden of proof always lays with the person that asserts something as true.
If you can not prove that gender is a binary you have not met that burden of proof.

Quote from: Jacelyn on October 31, 2011, 09:04:37 PMIt is a misconception that there exist a gender identity that is neither male nor
female (neither XX or XY), XXY is just 2x more female signaling in the gene,
whereas XYY is 1.5x more male signaling in the gene. XXX is 1.5x more female,
XXXX is 2x more female, XXYY and XX/XY is 1x male + female, and so on.

They are all variants within the default XX and XY binary, so how can one say
there is neither XX or XY when all of the variants contained either the XX or
XY genes.
You've committed a fallacy here by equating sex-chromosomes with gender identity.
A gender identity is the way in which an individual identifies with a gender category, for example, as being either a man or a woman, or in some cases being neither, which can be distinct from biological sex.

Chromosomes refer to the genetic makeup of the body which (in most cases) dictates the development of biological sex.

Nowhere did I state that there were those who were neither xx nor xy, but I did state that there are those who's gender identity is not male nor female, which is a completely different thing. As such, your final argument in this case is a straw man.

Quote from: Jacelyn on October 31, 2011, 09:04:37 PMThe biological features communiucate the body messages, one is free to oppose
nature, but it is not compatible without difficulties. Nature (biological traits) is a
force over mental decision / motivation, one who live in hormony with it harnest
the force for one's wishes, but one who opposes it, lived in dishormony with self
and others. One valid reason for some who wishes to transition is due to
pschological inclination that opposes the biological imperative, a person trap in a
male body who is pschologically "receptive to male sexual attention". So without
acceptance of this gender binary distinction, then what would that valid reason
be? Anyone will just be asexual pschologically and biologically, since all gender
distinction are neutralized (luckily this will never happened!).
This argument right here suggests that being transgender or not heterosexual is "opposing nature" and using the phrase "one is free to" suggest that both are a choice.

Secondly, it fails to address that the gender distinction as asserted by you is the "only" valid gender distinction and that without it there is no gender or that without the binary there is no gender distinction.
This means you're committing two logical fallacies.
One being the straw man of indirectly suggesting that anyone is arguing that the concept of gender be abandoned, the other being an appeal to consequence wherein you suggest that your statement is true because if it wasn't true there would be (unproven) negative consequences.

Quote from: Jacelyn on October 31, 2011, 09:04:37 PMBoth lesbian and gay have different degree of subjective and objective gender
perception than cis male and cis female, The intensity of subjective gender
clinging in lesbian and gay is less than that of the cis male and cis female,
whereas the intensity of objective gender clinging in lesbian and gay is more than
that of the cis male and cis female, so cis male and cis female are direct opposite
of the lesbian and gay in their subjective and objective gender clinging. Since in
lesbian and gay, the clinging to the objective gender is stronger, there is a sense of
giving, than receptive in both partners. So both partners can usually interchange
or shift role in different occasion in order to give to the other.
Do you have any link to any documented, empirical evidence of this claim?

Quote from: Jacelyn on October 31, 2011, 09:04:37 PMThere is a valid reason that MTF who has stronger wishes to be receptive to
another advances, find preference for male partner than female partner
(lesbianhood), even though, in pre-transition their objective preference is a
female partner.
Do you have any link to any documented, empirical evidence of this claim?

Quote from: Jacelyn on October 31, 2011, 09:04:37 PMWomen pursue romantic advances by enticing guys through dressing and makeup,
gestures, soft and feminine voices. Women are more successful attained what they
want by being passive, allowing room for the guy to make his move. Physical
attraction is key, and women are very much aware and being beauty conscious for
the sake of the male's attention. If a guy behave like this, it simply turn women
off, as women expecting the opposite of the guys.
Do you have any link to any documented, empirical evidence of this claim?

Secondly; How do you explain the vast female following and attraction to androgynous/femnine appearing/presenting male artists/preformers?
(examples; Bill Kaulitz, Gackt, David Bowie, Johhny Depp, etc)

Quote from: Jacelyn on October 31, 2011, 09:04:37 PMAs mentioned, women heavily relate sex with romance, physical orgasm is not
directly relevent to this pschological expectation. Sure if come it is better, but it is
not a big issue, if it failed to come. And this failure is not relevent to her sexual
satisfaction which can be pschologically based.
This point has been addressed, repeatedly, by information provided and proven to be incorrect.

Quote from: Jacelyn on October 31, 2011, 09:04:37 PMIronically affirmative, especially for MTF who transition after full maturity of the
male sexual reproduction system, the sex center is fully, physically developed, the
resultant higher sexual awareness cannot be reduced, but can only be transform
and channel into passive mode, if they wish to behave like the cis women. But
even with this pschological transformation, their sexual awareness still higher
than the cis women, only that it does not manifest in the manner of the male
consciousness. This is actually an advantage over the cis women, not a handicape,
since they will be able to perceive the sexual requirement of their male partner
the same level as them.
Do you have any link to demonstrable, empirical evidence of this statement?

Quote from: Jacelyn on October 31, 2011, 09:04:37 PMWhat is universally applicable and is causes of compatibility and harmony, just
because someone who wishes to oppose the signal of biological design, does not
mean that decision against nature is universal (as it is against nature decision), but
the criteria of  biological design is universal.
You have not yet demonstrated that your universal definition is universal even if only among cisgender heterosexuals.
If your definition were universally true of all human beings then we can safely say that everyone would be cisgender heterosexuals.

For something to be universally true it has to apply to every single human being. To be a universal truth means that there are no exceptions.

Quote from: Jacelyn on October 31, 2011, 09:04:37 PMNo, I implied X is X, Y is Y. Male is male, female is female, there is no neutralization of their distinctions. Even in their variants, there is support of the distinctions, as without the binary distinction, there will be absence of any variants. In other words, if there is no male and female, than no transgenders, no lesbians and gays, anyone will be asexual.
Another straw man and a failure to address the counterarguments made.

You are not only saying "male is male" you are defining what it means and is to be "male" in an extremely narrow and largely demonstrably inaccurate manner.
You are not only saying "female is female" you are defining what it is and means to be "female" in an extremely narrow and largely demonstrably inaccurate manner.
You are also stating that your definition of what it is and means to be male and female is universally true, which again, is demonstrably false.

No one is arguing that there is no such thing as male or female.
People are informing you that it's clearly demonstrable that your definitions of male and female are inaccurate and not at all universal.
People are also informing you that there are individuals (not everyone) who are/identify as neither male nor female.

That means that your idea of a simple gender binary as a universal definition of human beings is false.
It doesn't mean that there are no males or females, it means that it isn't as simple as either one or the other, that there are those individuals who exist who are both or neither (something that you yourself admitted in reference to homosexuality, essentially proving yourself wrong in the process.)

If gender is a simple binary then people are either male or female with no one falling in between the two points.
If gender is a scale (as many feel it is) then people can be male and female to a varying amount, allowing for people who identify as more male than female, or more female than male, or both, or neither (as a person perfectly between the two poles might.)

Hence the disagreement.



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tekla

You are nick picking, and not reading into the meaning.

Actually, it's 'nit picking' - as in removing the eggs of lice from the hair of mammals with your fingernails.
FIGHT APATHY!, or don't...
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cynthialee

Quote from: Jacelynbeing androgyn obviously does not neutralize the existence of either physical or pschological gender binary, but automatically demonstrate a default female biological form.

That won't wash either.

I know at least 4 male bodied androgynes.
So it is said that if you know your enemies and know yourself, you can win a hundred battles without a single loss.
If you only know yourself, but not your opponent, you may win or may lose.
If you know neither yourself nor your enemy, you will always endanger yourself.
Sun Tsu 'The art of War'
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Sailor_Saturn

RRRRRRAAAAAAAAAGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!! >:O

Jacelyn, unless you can provide sources for your information with links containing ".gov" or ".edu" as their extensions, peer-reviewed and thoroughly vetted journal articles (anything from the ACS, APA, NSF, the Danish Ministry of Health and Prevention, the CDC, or the WHO for example), legal documentation, or some other SUBSTANTIVE source, your views will NEVER be taken seriously by anyone with even a HINT of a scientific background. Do you understand? You are speaking against the findings of not one, not a couple, not a few, not many, but ALL of these sources and more. Show some meta-studies which confirm your findings regarding female sexual response/behavior. Show some arguments by accredited scientists who have had their views examined by other accredited scientists regarding gender identity development and human sexuality (that is, don't give me any crap from NARTH or some other pseudo-scientific agency). Show evidence other than what Johnny McPreacher said on his BLOG last Thursday.

Stop feeding us word salad and start giving us scientific steak! We DEMAND it! Or else admit that you're a pseudo-intellectual troll bent on ruining threads, and be DONE with it!
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cynthialee

I demand nothing....

It would be nice but demand is too strong a word.
So it is said that if you know your enemies and know yourself, you can win a hundred battles without a single loss.
If you only know yourself, but not your opponent, you may win or may lose.
If you know neither yourself nor your enemy, you will always endanger yourself.
Sun Tsu 'The art of War'
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