(This is a US-centric post. Sorry. )
Hello again... Long time, no post.
In a nutshell, I'm wondering if I just handed my health insurance company the excuse they'd need to make my life a living hell. So here goes...
Lately, I've been busy getting my ducks in a row for HRT. Before I start, though, I want to store my sperm. I just had my first appointment, but the whole thing's been eating at me since.
When I first started out, I learned that a local university ran a cryopreservation facility through their OB/GYN program (the intake forms were...interesting). I was all ready to go, but they had to go and inject reality into my dreams. Turns out, I need an initial consultation: the wait for those...six weeks. I called them up and
we then talked about my insurance and my reasons for seeking them, to which I told the truth. I wasn't worried then; I knew how unlikely it'd be that insurance would pay for any of this. I didn't get any 'phobic vibes from the lady taking my appointment, but she did confirm my suspicions that they didn't have much experience with "someone like me".
This is my main worry. My doctors have been pretty clueful when it comes to insurance companies. This time, I had no choice but to take a chance.
So...six weeks later, I show up with all the forms they need.
When they ask for my insurance card, I give it to them. When I finally meet with the doctor,
he reveals that: 1. They apparently noted my trans status all over my files. 2. Neither he nor his center has ever (knowingly) had a trans client. When we get to the end of the meeting, he tells me I have to fill out yet another form before I can start the actual deposits. In the section marking reasons,
he wrote in "Prior to treatment medically or surgically for gender change". I had no problem with that
until he told me he was going to submit just that to the insurance company. I told him that might not be the best of ideas, but he told me to go talk to the billing department. I asked that they submit it, but to refuse requests for that kind of information.
She said she'd "make a note of it".
I guess my nightmare scenario is that my insurance company sees this and uses it as an excuse to stop paying for so much as a flu shot. Am I being paranoid, or should I worry? Should I have just paid up front for the entire thing and told them not to send anything to insurance? Turns out there is a standard check box for "in anticipation of orchiectomy". Should I ask him to change the reasoning to that or would it raise even more eyebrows?
*sigh*