I think part of the problem is that we are a minority of a minority. In such, makes each and everyone of us an individual. Then we try to label each other. None Op. Pre Op, Post Op, TS, CD, TV, TG, IS, ect. Soon we will have more labels, then people with gender identity disorder. (sarcasm)
This is what I tell people in person who ask about me.
So what are you then?
I am a Lesbian male to female transsexual post op woman with a little extra.
What..a little extra. What is post op? What does that mean?
Post op means I have had some surgery.
What about the little extra, hehe
It is very personal.
But how does that work?
Well how does it work when you're with your partner?
What, hehehe. I'm not going to tell you.
Well now you know I feel on that subject. You could ask my girl friend maybe.
No, I'm ok with that. I do find it very interesting.
Indeed.
I like my coffee with sugar. You can take yours have ever you take it. We can still have coffee together.