Again, I can only comment as someone who don't want hers.
It feels like a big siren, wailing out, flashing, stinking, freak comming, stand back, don't get involved. Big time weirdo. Can't make it as a man. Avoid the smell.
It's ugly. It hurts like mad. It gets really itchy and anyone who tells you you don't get psorisis on it doesn't know what they're talking about.
It makes me inadequate. Not just feel, but actually.
Some might say it's handy when you need to pee, but believe me, it still leaks. It still hurts.
More than anything else, its a focus, a focus to remond me that my sexuality is and always will be second best. Some might say it has a lot of feelings, sensations. No, it has less sensitive than my fingers.
I won't start to anthromorphise it by talking about its needs or its behaviour. It doesn't have any intelegence nor individuality. It's just a useless part that doesn't seem to have the correct wiring available.
Basically, it's a wheel from a truck put on a trike.