Has this ever happen to you that happen to me today, I sometimes visit an old lady neighbor who lives nearby, on Sunday I sometimes bring her dinner, as Im already cooking for myself and Mark, it doesn't take much to cook for 1more, last few days Iv had flu symptoms feeling hot and she kinda notice, she took me by surprise as I was going and says to me, ''are you ok Pauline, its ok every woman gets hot flushes, its natural going thru the change, menopause is not an illness, just go with it, just ring if you don't call by, I understand, anytime if you want to talk about it, I went thru it, men don't understand these things, my husband never did.''
I was completely taken by surprise, but for me it was awesome moment, hard to describe, an older woman so super sweet and helpful to a younger woman, for me it was a lovely feminine shared moment, menopause, hot flushes wow omg, only women, woman to woman talk about these things.
Truly recognized as a woman I surposed, awesome, it made my day.......
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