I hate being asked if I am a top!

[eli77]

I don't like being asked if I'm a top NOR if I'm a bottom. Top and bottom are words used by gay men.

^^ Straight thing.

Gay girls use top/bottom as well.

[Cyndigurl45]

I was asked that question often in the beginning and have topped a few, still feeling like I was male, haha and it still worked, but it hasn't worked in several years so I would have to top a guy the same way any other woman would have to, a strap-on.

Something I have noticed over the years is my desire to just be treated like a normal woman, would a guy ask a women he's dating to top him?? OH and I really, REALLY prefer giving and getting oral more so now then ever

[MsDazzler]

As someone else had mentioned, ->-bleeped-<- porn has really made inroads and fostered some misconceptions in avid porn viewers. They do not realize that hormones are a contradinction to being a top, since it practically kills your erections, heh.

A guy who I knew for a long while ... we ve been chatting online, and he knew I was trans. Once I mentioned I was going to go on hormones soon, he said, "No, no, please don't."

I asked, "Why not?"

Under a veneer of concerned guise, he said that hormones play havoc with my body. But I smelled bull->-bleeped-<- - once I dug further, he admitted that he was worried that I wouldn't be sufficiently hard enough after a while since he liked to play with "cocks".

After that, we spoke one or two more times - each time I expressed my wish to go on hormones. He seemed to slowly lose his enthustatism and we fell out of touch.