Hello Jenna,
Welcome to Susan's. How beautiful it is, and how lucky you are to have a Significant Other that's understanding and acceptable. I know, because I do as well. Among the greatest pain I've observed here is with those that have SOs that are not. That is, of course, very understandable. It is such a challenge in what is already the most challenging relationship these is without Gender Identity issues complicating matters.
I hope you find much help and information here.
Susan Kay