Hello

[nikkisangel]

Hi everyone,

I'm Dawnie, the SO of a crossdresser/transgender. We have been together 3 years and are getting married in December.

Nikki told me all about crossdressing about a year ago. I'm still learning and sometimes still get confused, angry, jealous and annoyed with him.                                       Although I fully support my partner in his crossdressing, help him choose clothes, shoes ( we take the same size. BONUS!! ). I do have problems with some of his other recreational activities, porn to be precise. Is this quite normal for CD's?

Hopefully I'll learn more and make some friends while I'm here.

Dawnie

[janis]

  Hi Dawnie,
     I have been a crossdresser all my life,but I always new that I was born in the wrong body///
  I was married for a long time and she new about me and under stood/// I am classafied as transgender/// It took her a long time to deal with it/// She pasted last year// So just try to stand by him, he has a lot to deal with him self/// I pray that you will be fine///
   Janis

[Devlyn]

Hi Dawnie, welcome to Susans! We're glad you joined us. It is perfectly normal for a crossdresser to like porn. It's also perfectly normal for a crossdresser to be a birdwatcher, churchgoer, firefighter, etc. Some people just like naked people! Have you mentioned that it bothers you? See you around, hugs, Tracey

[Catherine Sarah]

Hi Dawnie,

A BIG welcome to Susan's family. You sound like a very leveled headed woman. Thank you for your understanding. This community appreciates it.

I trust you are fine with every aspect of your relationship, as December is rapidly approaching, and I would not like to see any issues swept under the carpet, only to have them raise their "ugly" head at a later date.

Best for a slight inconvenience now with a postponement of December while the "ship" is made ship shape for it's life long voyage ahead.

Fortunately, you know best.

Be safe, well and happy
Lotsa luv
Catherine

[nikkisangel]

Hi girls,

Thanks for the welcome. It is much appreciated. :-D

Catherine:

I have given the wedding a lot of thought, over the past months, and spoken to nikki about it. We are both in agreement that we will always keep the lines of communication open, be honest and support each other when and if things get bad between us. Easier said than done, I know. But I'm willing to try  and keep on trying. Nikki's worth it.

My partners seems to think I prefer nikki to him now. * smiles* maybe I do. Lol

Dawnie

[Dane]

Hey, welcome to Susan's. I'd bake you a plate of welcome cookies, but I don't know how to bake, and I don't have any cookie ingredients. xD

[Catherine Sarah]

I have given the wedding a lot of thought, over the past months, and spoken to nikki about it. We are both in agreement that we will always keep the lines of communication open, be honest and support each other when and if things get bad between us. Easier said than done, I know. But I'm willing to try  and keep on trying. Nikki's worth it.

Hi Dawnie,

That's absolutely fabulous what you've done.  Its' a great formula, being honest and open.  It allows the 'light' in.

I wish you both, every joy and an abundance in whatever and where ever your journey takes you.

Be safe, well and happy
Lotsa luv
Catherine