If it makes you feel any better, Emma, the type of woman you just described yourself as is exactly my type of woman.

Not that I have issues with binary girls, ha, I just have a soft spot for those that like to defy it. One of my favourite things in my past partner. She's a cisgirl, and before she met me she questioned her own gender identity...but as she got more comfortable with having sex (never had that with her past partners), she realized that she really loves her female body, and wouldn't want it to be anything other than female. But she said that she felt psychologically like she was simultaneously both/neither male and female, and that in terms of her mental gender identification (/lack of gender identification) she was happy just being "herself" as it were.