How open minded is this forum?

[MsDazzler]

So, girls, I have been here around for a while... I am wondering how open minded this forum is because so far I have not seen any threads or topics about sex itself. You know, the whole topic about sex.

It seems like we are tiptoeing around it, rather instead, discussing other isssues that we face in our daily lives and questions that we have regarding society, transitioning, etc.

I am not talking about linking to porn pics or discuss depraved sexual acts.... but, rather, our sex lives, how we are coping, masturbation, whether we like anal sex or not, etc.

Can we discuss such topics here or it s not considered polite? Let me know so I know where to cross the line or not. After all, I am new here. "a friend" according to my avatar status, heh

[Jaime]

I'm open minded, but don't care about sex myself, whether its having it or talking about it, lol.  I'm happy being a prude:-) 

[JennX]

Ummm... There's a whole sub-forum dedicated to the subject. Go to the "Just for Us" forum and you'll see it. 

[stldrmgrl]

Ummm... There's a whole sub-forum dedicated to the subject. Go to the "Just for Us" forum and you'll see it. 

+1

Nonetheless, I am not interested in sex.

[VeryGnawty]

Ummm... There's a whole sub-forum dedicated to the subject. Go to the "Just for Us" forum and you'll see it. 

I think the main reason there are no sex topics here is because they would be off-topic.  That sort of seals the deal for why there are no sex topics in the MtF forum.

[MaxAloysius]

I dunno if it's the same for the girls (apparently not?), but it seems to come up quite regularly in coversation over in the guy's section.

[Cindy]

Hi

Nothing wrong in talking about sex and sexuality. There is a sexuality forum so we place the topics there. The only restrictions are on porn, obscenity or titillation and we don't host orgy or hook ups.

The reason we have a separate section is that they are accessible to members only so we get rid of the pervs, as much as we can. As far as I know there is no staff on this place who is in the least 'prudish', we just enforce Susan's rules which are in the announcement section.

Post away.

Cindy

[Lily]

I'm never offended by anything sexual. I'm more likely to be amused than anything. There was a thread in the sexuality forum about masturbating with the butter from movie theaters that was pretty hilarious.

[El]

Ugh, thats something i dont wanna think about for a while lol. I can wait till SRS lol, if i can avoid any more sexual experiences like the ones i had in guy-mode its totally worth it lol.

Well i say that but if i find the right guy or girl it would bare discussing but i REALLY dont like my current equipment, just knowing i still have it is a massive turn-off for me. I know we are all different but i can definately wait for now, its was like early 2009 iirc the last time i "did it" lol another couple of years wont kill me. Who knows maybe once im on HRT i will feel differently about it..............

(On a bit of a tangent i wouldnt mind a kiss one day soon lol, its been a while and i really miss a kiss and a cuddle.)

[Cindy]

Ugh, thats something i dont wanna think about for a while lol. I can wait till SRS lol, if i can avoid any more sexual experiences like the ones i had in guy-mode its totally worth it lol.

Well i say that but if i find the right guy or girl it would bare discussing but i REALLY dont like my current equipment, just knowing i still have it is a massive turn-off for me. I know we are all different but i can definately wait for now, its was like early 2009 iirc the last time i "did it" lol another couple of years wont kill me. Who knows maybe once im on HRT i will feel differently about it..............

(On a bit of a tangent i wouldnt mind a kiss one day soon lol, its been a while and i really miss a kiss and a cuddle.)

Hugs

Cindy

[El]

Hugs

Cindy

Aww thank you XD

[Lily]

Ahhhh I need a hug too.

*big huuuuuuugs for everyone*

[Cindy]

Ahhhh I need a hug too.

*big huuuuuuugs for everyone*

Hugs
Cindy

[Sarah Louise]

There have been "sexual" discussions many times.  We insist they stay within the Sexuality Section.  We also will monitor how graphic they get.  I think we are open minded.  I know that I for one have not been celebate before or after my transition.

[Lynn]

Ugh, thats something i dont wanna think about for a while lol. I can wait till SRS lol, if i can avoid any more sexual experiences like the ones i had in guy-mode its totally worth it lol.

Well i say that but if i find the right guy or girl it would bare discussing but i REALLY dont like my current equipment, just knowing i still have it is a massive turn-off for me. I know we are all different but i can definately wait for now, its was like early 2009 iirc the last time i "did it" lol another couple of years wont kill me. Who knows maybe once im on HRT i will feel differently about it..............

(On a bit of a tangent i wouldnt mind a kiss one day soon lol, its been a while and i really miss a kiss and a cuddle.)

All's exactly the same for me, minus one little detail ... it hasn't been quite as long as since 2009
I don't really mind talking about it though ... as long as I don't have to talk about my own "equipment". It makes me quite uncomfortable.

But a cuddle and a kiss sounds so awesome right now. I likely won't be getting any of that anytime soon either though. sigh.

[tekla]

masturbating with the butter from movie theaters

And I don't know if it was true or not, but you bet I'm not eating anymore popcorn at the movies.

[cynthialee]

Keep in mind the audiance here....

How many of us are comfortable enough with their bodies to have sex?
Out of the few who are, how likely is it that they would want to talk about these topics around women who are very much traumatised because of their bodies?

Sex is a complicated minefield for most of us.

[Padma]

Butter ruins popcorn, just as popcorn ruins masturbation.

[stldrmgrl]

Meh, I don't like masturbation or popcorn, whether buttered or not.

[annette]

masturbating with the butter from movie theaters

And I don't know if it was true or not, but you bet I'm not eating anymore popcorn at the movies.

Well, Tekla, you can take the popcorn but leave the butter where it is, you don't know, it's maybe used before. Safety first.