Just a personal prespective.
I dress and will dress, to suit the moment and reflect how I feel.
I happily wear, what some might consider neutral or feminine clothing when I feel it is appropriate. I wish I could feel more secure to express myself in clothing more freely. Social judgement is important. Only a liar claims not to be influenced by social judgement.
But ultimately, who I am and what I am is innate. It is part of me. I am a person, female inside, with an ugly bit.
As I said, this is a purely personal prespective. I will applaud and defend those who wish to express themselves more openly.