I think it's different for ftm's. Or maybe just for me. I want to look older and uglier. The people who run around collecting signatures for ballot measures used to stop me several times a day, but since transitioning they look at me and walk on by. Lol I don't look voting age.
If I were scarred up and wrinklier I feel like I'd be sending a more honest message somehow.
Fiona you are both very pretty and much older than I realized. I thought you were younger than me, and I'm 30. Your friend is silly.