I hate being old and ugly .I'm so over it.

Is your profile pic of you? If so, you ain't ugly and you definitely aren't old.

If you're 36 and old, what does that make me as I'm 6 years older than you? One foot in the grave?

Hang in there, Fionabell.

I prefer mature or of an advanced age:)

I'm 36.. and I'm neither old or ugly - and you look a whole lot prettier than I do.. 36 isn't old, heck it's not even approaching middle aged any more..

What's 'middle age' depends completely on how long you live.

Thanx girls.Very sweet of you all. I think I'm just down because my very masculine bearlike friend was trying to tell me the other day that he's more feminine than me. I get easily affected by male egotists.

Since Kelly is one of my teenage sisters I'd better not say what age I am  .

As The Who said. You wanna die before you get old. Haven't seen any of them practice this in a voluntary manner. Since they are all older than me, I must be young.



Cindy

I think it's different for ftm's. Or maybe just for me. I want to look older and uglier. The people who run around collecting signatures for ballot measures used to stop me several times a day, but since transitioning they look at me and walk on by. Lol I don't look voting age.

If I were scarred up and wrinklier I feel like I'd be sending a more honest message somehow.

Fiona you are both very pretty and much older than I realized. I thought you were younger than me, and I'm 30. Your friend is silly.

If your friend is a 'Bear' bear, then he has a very different idea of femininity to start with. 
You are quite pretty, and you certainly are not old.  He's probably jealous that you will attract more guys than him!

Karen.

Bears lift their little fingers when they sip tea from a delicate cup