Well, hello there!

[Jasper1408]

Hello!

My name is Jasper and I am 22 years old. I am currently residing in Southern California for the time being. By this time next year, I'm hoping to be back home in Virginia.

I am FTM, pre-everything. Well, long story short, I was on T for a few months before I moved out here but, since I'm living with my military/Republican/Texan/Conservative/Transconfused parents, I have to wait until I get my own place before going back on T. I miss it. 

A little about me: I love music and books, but most of all, I love my fat cat. She's my baby. I'm currently job slacking, but planning to go back to school and get my Master's in Counseling, so I can become a GLBT advocate for youth and give these kids the help and support I never got growing up. With all the bullying-related suicides, it breaks my heart to know that there are so many more kids out there being bullied with no support system. I want to change that.

I'm a huge fan of 70s punk and 80s hair bands. Strange mix, huh? I'm a huge sap and am more than willing to admit that I am a gentleman at heart. I strive to be the conglomerate husband of every romantic movie out there. Good mix? Lloyd Dobbler (Say Anything) + John Bender (Breakfast Club, gotta be a bit of a badass) + Colin Firth (just in general) + Phil (Modern Family) + Richard Castle (Castle) = My goal. Asking too much? Maybe. 

Anyhoo, I'm still learning how to work this website. I do not know how to do ANYTHING, including respond to private messages, so... sorry?

Take it easy,
Jasper

[Devlyn]

Hi Jasper, welcome to Susans! I saw your fat cat in the pet name thread. Thanks go out to your Dad and your whole family for their service and sacrifice. Hair bands rule! See you around the site, hugs, Tracey

[Jennifer]

Hi Jasper!  

Jennifer

[Jasper1408]

Hi, ladies! Thanks for the welcome.

[Cindy]

Hi Jasper,

I'm a little behind in my welcomes


Hi, and welcome to Susan's! We have people come to visit us from all over the world, expressing different points of view, and you are likely to find someone to help you along your way   

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Hugs

Cindy

[~RoadToTrista~]

Hai Jasper. Fat cats are the best.

Check PM's by highlighting "My Messages" at the top and clicking "Read Your Messages". You don't need to check all the time because the site notifies you when you get one. I can send you one if you want to see what it's like, when I got my first PM I was like "wtf is this a virus?" lolz

[Jasper1408]

Thanks, all.

I think I'm slowly figuring everything out. I couldn't respond to messages because I had less than 15 posts. But, now I can! Yay!

[RachaelAnn22]

Hi Jasper,I got some fat cats too!Hugs,Rachael.