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I wish I had real friends!

Started by Jen-Jen, December 14, 2011, 12:30:10 AM

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Jen-Jen

I watched this video and it makes me so sad and completly lonely! I wish I had real ( in person) friends I could hang out with and just be silly!

Don't judge a book by its cover! My lifes been like a country song! True love, amazing grace, severe heartbreak, buckles, boots n spurs! I 've been thrown off the bull a couple times, I keep getting up and dusting myself off! Can't give up on my happily ever after!
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Noelle

I can be all of those people, you should come hang out with me.
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stldrmgrl

Real friends?  Oh no no, there's no one I know who cares for those any longer.

From what I've learned, real friends are reflected by the number you have on social networking.

Face-to-face interaction is becoming a thing of the past.

This is my sarcastic approach to say I agree with you as I am in the same boat.
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cindianna_jones

It must feel so lonely. Don't you know anyone who you might consider being a friend? Don't give up.

Cindi
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Jen-Jen

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Quote from: krysha on December 14, 2011, 12:34:24 AM
I can be all of those people, you should come hang out with me.
I can be most of them too haha maybe! I'd Love to! I would if I could! but with my luck, I bet your miles away from me!


Quote from: stldrmgrl on December 14, 2011, 12:41:20 AM
Real friends?  Oh no no, there's no one I know who cares for those any longer.

From what I've learned, real friends are reflected by the number you have on social networking.

Face-to-face interaction is becoming a thing of the past.

This is my sarcastic approach to say I agree with you.
very true, thats what i've noticed!no one wants to hang out anymore just be on thier phones or comp! I wish I lived in the past then. but being trans doesnt help me either I Guess! why do people have to be so ignorant!

Quote from: Cindi Jones on December 14, 2011, 12:46:19 AM
It must feel so lonely. Don't you know anyone who you might consider being a friend? Don't give up.

Cindi
It does feel so lonely! My career choice doesn't help either, no one wants to be friends with a cop! I walked across my hometown the other day not one hi or hello. The streets were crowded but it felt like I was the only one here on this planet! I walked across town maybe five miles! No I don't know anyone here in my current town that i could be friends with as me. Out of town I have two best friends that I have had since I was like 8 but they live in other cities. Then being trans scares people away, its so stupid!

Don't judge a book by its cover! My lifes been like a country song! True love, amazing grace, severe heartbreak, buckles, boots n spurs! I 've been thrown off the bull a couple times, I keep getting up and dusting myself off! Can't give up on my happily ever after!
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BlonT

Yes we come in a time we stand in a crowd and see nobody  :(

jenycop 
QuoteMy career choice doesn't help either, no one wants to be friends with a cop!

i must reply with CAN YOU be friends with a cop ? I agree that most air there frust about there being treated wrong , specially on parties. I can but it need mutual trust.Must admit i have a grudge to them to, but thats against the system not the persons !          huggss :)
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JenJen2011

Quote from: JennyCop on December 14, 2011, 12:50:28 AM
no one wants to be friends with a cop!

I would LOVE to be friends with a cop. You could protect me, hehe. I understand how you feel as I use to feel that way when I first started to transition. Maybe you could join a local support group and make friends there?
"You have one life to live so live it right"
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Torn1990

aw that was cute  :D
well we're all here we just have computer screens between us   ;D
queer, transgender woman, Feminist, & writer. ~
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Noelle

Quote from: JennyCop on December 14, 2011, 12:50:28 AM
I can be most of them too haha maybe! I'd Love to! I would if I could! but with my luck, I bet your miles away from me!


Cally xD
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Amalina

I can relate. I've had so many friends that turned out fake that I have serious trust issues these days.

fionabell

I'd invite you around to for a cup of tea if we lived in the same country. I don't have friends either :(
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Embla

I know it can be tough sometimes, feeling isolated, but it always helps to think of what you do have, as long as you have at least one person that cares about you, that's a start.  I know if you keep looking, you'll find some friends :).
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Jaime

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Joeyboo~ :3

Jay is one of my only friends.
I can count the amount of people who actually care to talk to me on my fingers.

Sucks being lonely! 3:
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Lily

I spend a lot of time talking to myself.  :(

Everyone I know has really busy schedules, and I end up sitting alone almost every night. I always appreciate those times I have with others, but they are far too few.
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Jen-Jen

Quote from: BlonT on December 14, 2011, 06:08:23 AM
Yes we come in a time we stand in a crowd and see nobody  :(

jenycop 
i must reply with CAN YOU be friends with a cop ? I agree that most air there frust about there being treated wrong , specially on parties. I can but it need mutual trust.Must admit i have a grudge to them to, but thats against the system not the persons !          huggss :)
very true! ( the crowd thing) Yes you can be friends with a cop! unfortunatly the grudge against the system affects people like me!

Quote from: JenJen2011 on December 14, 2011, 07:49:21 AM
I would LOVE to be friends with a cop. You could protect me, hehe. I understand how you feel as I use to feel that way when I first started to transition. Maybe you could join a local support group and make friends there?

I would have to protect you, geeze, your very pretty! there is no local support group in my town the closest would maybe be over 200 miles away. thank you for your advise and suggestion.

Quote from: Torn1990 on December 14, 2011, 11:19:00 AM
aw that was cute  :D
well we're all here we just have computer screens between us   ;D
yes its very cute! its that darn computer thats between us that bugs me, lol! but true at least we/I have here.


Quote from: krysha on December 14, 2011, 02:33:36 PM
Cally xD
AZ nieghbor!


Quote from: NotSure on December 14, 2011, 05:53:01 PM
I can relate. I've had so many friends that turned out fake that I have serious trust issues these days.
I totally relate with you on fake friends and trust issues! i have had friends I have trusted to lean on and they only used what i told them to hurt me!

Quote from: fionabell on December 14, 2011, 08:03:18 PM
I'd invite you around to for a cup of tea if we lived in the same country. I don't have friends either :(
I would love to come for a visit and have a cup of tea with you! I always wanted to visit your country. unfortunatly public survants don't make that much money.

Quote from: Embla on December 14, 2011, 08:07:46 PM
I know it can be tough sometimes, feeling isolated, but it always helps to think of what you do have, as long as you have at least one person that cares about you, that's a start.  I know if you keep looking, you'll find some friends :).
your right about having that one person, but I currently lost my belief that person truly cares.which is the main reason i'm lonely. I was extremely happy with just having her.

Quote from: Jaime on December 14, 2011, 08:10:55 PM
I just talk to my dog a lot.
my cat won't listen to me! He can't stay still long enough! lol!

Quote from: JoeyD on December 14, 2011, 08:20:58 PM
Jay is one of my only friends.
I can count the amount of people who actually care to talk to me on my fingers.

Sucks being lonely! 3:
I am so happy you have him Joey, I remeber ready about you being lonely, it does susck being lonely! please add another finger for me!

Quote from: Lily on December 14, 2011, 08:27:24 PM
I spend a lot of time talking to myself.  :(

Everyone I know has really busy schedules, and I end up sitting alone almost every night. I always appreciate those times I have with others, but they are far too few.
lol! me too! especially to my male self if that makes any sense. -shrugs- very true about the schedules, but for me it also includes distance and acceptance.


Thank you all for your responses! I do appreciate my friends here on Susan's!


Don't judge a book by its cover! My lifes been like a country song! True love, amazing grace, severe heartbreak, buckles, boots n spurs! I 've been thrown off the bull a couple times, I keep getting up and dusting myself off! Can't give up on my happily ever after!
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Amy85

Quote from: Jaime on December 14, 2011, 08:10:55 PM
I just talk to my dog a lot.

I do the same thing with my two cats, especially when I haven't been able to visit my friends in a while. Sometimes I like to mock my cats about not being able to talk, and all they can do it meow back at me!  >:-)   :D

I might be crazy...
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Tristan

if you stay in florida or soth GA we could hang
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Lee

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AZ nieghbor!
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Well swing by and say hi if you're ever in CO.  You seem like a nice person to hang out with.  :)

Edit: Sorry this has a weird format.  I'm not sure what's wrong with the quoting.
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Felix

Jenny, cops scare the holy hell out of me. I usually get along well with them, and in some situations I seek them out, but I've been beaten and bullied by them severely, frequently, and even recently.

Friend is a relative term. I have no close friends. Getting beat up makes humans look worth avoiding, amirite?
everybody's house is haunted
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