passing

drvotion86 · December 30, 2011, 02:17:33 PM

Ok so I have trouble passing I'm not sure why though. In passing people don't stare or say anything when i have hair in. If ppl spend the time around me they kinda have an idea.

My body has changed so much and my figure is coming in so nicely. But i feel like my face is lagging behind. There are girls on this forum who looks so natural and pretty... When does your face soften. Mine hasnt changed at all since i've started. I'm really depressed about having to put so much makeup on to pass...

JenJen2011 · December 30, 2011, 02:24:32 PM

Hormones only move around the fatty tissue in the face. For examples, your cheeks may become fuller. But your actual facial bone structure won't change. That's why many of us opt for FFS. Those who are naturally pretty and passable are lucky.

By the way, you are gorgeous!

drvotion86 · December 30, 2011, 02:27:11 PM

I dont think the fat in my face has changed at all. I dont think i would need ffs. I couldnt afford it anyhow.

Jen-Jen · December 30, 2011, 03:03:43 PM

Natalie , you look fine! and your face is pretty and has changed!

drvotion86 · December 30, 2011, 03:08:34 PM

First day full time, I think a week or so after starting hormones...

this christmas...

I've been really moody lately. Crying all the time and such. Feel on top of the world then feel like crap... It doesnt help im bipolar

Jen-Jen · December 30, 2011, 03:25:56 PM

still pretty, i see changes in your cheecks and nose, so far.

drvotion86 · December 30, 2011, 03:30:10 PM

Thx jenny i feel like im an annoyance. I just dont have any friends to talk to in person. So this is my only outlet. I wonder why everyone can tell just from hanging around me?

annette · December 30, 2011, 03:35:25 PM

In the first place, you had a very nice feminine face to start with, a lot of sisters would envy you.
Passing shouldn't be the problem, I think the problem is that you look too much to other people, what would they think, what if they clock you and so on.
Don't give attention to that, just be a girl, if you think, do i pass? you will be clocked, than things will be overdone and exaggerate.
If you are just a girl, nobody would ever think about you're not.
Hey, you're not expect to play a girl, you are a girl, just be yourself and everything will be fine, you'll see.

Happy newyear pretty.

drvotion86 · December 30, 2011, 03:40:27 PM

I am naturally nervous around people. Always been that way. I have a fear of people. If there are too many people around i have to leave.

annette · December 30, 2011, 03:58:15 PM

Why should you be nervous with other people, they are only glad to see a pretty face.
They won't bite you and if they do, bite them back.
You have absolutely no reason to be affraid of passing, you're a nice looking girl.
Hey....keep that in mind....YOU'RE A NICE LOOKING GIRL, don't you forget about that.

Jen-Jen · December 30, 2011, 04:23:54 PM

Quote from: Natalie <3 on December 30, 2011, 03:30:10 PM
Thx jenny i feel like im an annoyance. I just dont have any friends to talk to in person. So this is my only outlet. I wonder why everyone can tell just from hanging around me?

I don't know, but I am in the same boat. I don't have any friends to talk to in person ethier. I also share being naturallt nervous and I also don't like to be around lots of people.

I am also always worried about not passing!

Alainaluvsu · December 30, 2011, 04:49:18 PM

Ok.. I'm looking at your avatar and I have no pity for you whatsoever. Sorry.. you are gorgeous enough to make millions of genetic women extremely jealous. You have beautiful features and I cannot see myself ever passing as well as you do physically. Jesus, the only time I pass is in the drive thru or if somebody is looking at me from behind. The only reason you can't pass is because of something we cannot see like your voice, personality, or posture. Or maybe you are just an excellent makeup artist and the only time you're not passing is with 0 makeup, idk. I'm sure people on this board that see this thread, see your avatar, and are not posting, are pretty much sick to their stomach because YOU are complaining about your looks

All I know is if I looked like you, I'd pass 100% of the time, I'd have transitioned, and probably wouldn't be clocked unless I showed people my birth certificate or showed them what xy chromosomes create

rosetyler · December 30, 2011, 04:54:52 PM

Quote from: Alainaluvsu on December 30, 2011, 04:49:18 PMyou are gorgeous enough to make millions of genetic women extremely jealous

I'm cis. Me=jealous.

You don't need to worry.

Joeyboo~ :3 · December 30, 2011, 05:24:22 PM

Tsk, tsk, Natalie.
Out of all people you shouldn't be complaining about passing, you pass 100% in your photos.
So maybe its something that's "off" when people see you in public.

But yeah.
Don't talk about not looking passable.

I obviously have to right to complain about that, m'kay.

The only reason why people never pay attention to my photos is because they're too busy flushing their eye sockets with high grade bleach.

Jayr · December 30, 2011, 05:49:07 PM

Quote from: JoeyD on December 30, 2011, 05:24:22 PM
But yeah.
Don't talk about not looking passable.

I obviously have to right to complain about that, m'kay.
The only reason why people never pay attention to my photos is because they're too busy flushing their eye sockets with high grade bleach.

I should slap and drop kick you for saying that v_v

Still love you <3

Joeyboo~ :3 · December 30, 2011, 05:55:12 PM

Quote from: Jayr on December 30, 2011, 05:49:07 PM
I should slap and drop kick you for saying that v_v

Still love you <3

Step up.
I love you <3 even though this is going to seriously derail Natalie's thread. I'm all down for it.

Jen-Jen · December 30, 2011, 07:13:36 PM

Quote from: Alainaluvsu on December 30, 2011, 04:49:18 PM
Ok.. I'm looking at your avatar and I have no pity for you whatsoever. Sorry.. you are gorgeous enough to make millions of genetic women extremely jealous. You have beautiful features and I cannot see myself ever passing as well as you do physically. Jesus, the only time I pass is in the drive thru or if somebody is looking at me from behind. The only reason you can't pass is because of something we cannot see like your voice, personality, or posture. Or maybe you are just an excellent makeup artist and the only time you're not passing is with 0 makeup, idk. I'm sure people on this board that see this thread, see your avatar, and are not posting, are pretty much sick to their stomach because YOU are complaining about your looks

All I know is if I looked like you, I'd pass 100% of the time, I'd have transitioned, and probably wouldn't be clocked unless I showed people my birth certificate or showed them what xy chromosomes create

are you talking about Natalie or me? Sorry it followed my reply so... just wondering.

MsDazzler · December 30, 2011, 07:42:37 PM

it s probably your fear of being clocked that is affecting your ability to pass - others can pick up on it and smell it then take a second look at you to figure out why you are nervous.

Alainaluvsu · December 30, 2011, 07:42:50 PM

Quote from: JennyCop on December 30, 2011, 07:13:36 PM
are you talking about Natalie or me? Sorry it followed my reply so... just wondering.

Natalie.. sorry for any confusion

supremecatoverlord · December 30, 2011, 08:21:01 PM

Natalie, not only do you pass in your photos, but you are also really pretty.
The only reason I could see you not passing to people in real life is if you're abnormally tall, have huge hands, or are still having troubles with your voice.
It's definitely not the appearance of your face though.

And Joey, don't even start about your face not passing, m'kay?

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