Appearancewise I'm pretty lackluster. But I'm not intrigued very much. I used to go all out when I was trying to get my husband to go out on a date with me and I got an incredible amount of attention from other men, (just not from him! ;() But then once we started dating I got to settle down and be me again. I like being cosy and plain, mostly because i don't like attention from others. I used to LOVE getting attention when I was younger because I was a nerd in school and never got attention
But then when I became a hag I had a ton of fun. It was only fun because none of the guys were ever trying to pick me up.
I admire beautiful women who get attention. But I don't want to be one. I have other things I think are much more interesting. I'm a brain, I admit it. I like learning and reading etc.
So to me it's always been a bit strange to see other women talk about looking good as if it is the pinnacle of being a great women. Most of the great women I admire in my life are beautiful to me because of their confidence, energy and intelligence. Beauty for me, hinges on that.
