In other words, if I could change things so that I was happy living as a woman, would I choose that? Certainly not. If I could change things and be born a regular boy, I might choose that. (One variable is, how far back does this go? If I could just wave a magic wand and be a regular guy now, that's different from starting my life over as a regular guy. And, of course, both are completely different from being a woman--I wouldn't choose that under any circumstances at all.)